Friday, January 8, 2010

15 yr old needs relationship (with mom) advice?

i love my mom very very much


but im not happy whenever i am living with her and i dont know why


she is a great mom..she has rules for me but she also gives me a lot of freedom and she trusts me and me and her get along great


but i dont want to live with her because im always sad it's not even her that gets me sad i dont know what it is


wen i was 14 i moved with my dad and then like 7 months later moved back with my mom becasue i missed her and then like 2 month later i moved with her 2nd cousin and now (1.5 months later) i moved back with my mom but i cant stop having these crying spells and i just want to go back with my mom cousin...idk what to do...i love my mom but im so depressed living with her..what is wrong with me?!?!!?15 yr old needs relationship (with mom) advice?
stop moving back and fourth like you have been you are 15 you need to be in a stable environment. you might be a bit depressed which that is normal nothing to be ashamed of I'd go to the doctor and ask to get put on anti-depressants they work good and there not addictive and i think they will really help. i had crying spells and stuff like that for a long time then i finally got sick of it and went to the doctor and that's what she put me on anti-depressants. it's not expensive either if you get generic you can get it for like 10$$'s. i really hope I've helped in some way sorry things aren't good right now. Good luck!!15 yr old needs relationship (with mom) advice?
Your mom isn't the problem here. You're a teenager, so it's totally natural to have mood swings and to be depressed now and then. If it really impacts your life (you can't enjoy the day or change your mood) or keeps coming back, then you need to find the source of the unhappiness, and fix it.





Talking with a therapist or counselor, or even just writing in a journal, can be a big help. Just keep writing or talking, and after awhile you'll get to the heart of the problem and see what is really bothering you. Talk with your mom and ask for her help.
I have the same prob but my parents still live wit eachother but for one you can talk to her but it didn't really work with me and then just plan things with her
Step one is to figure out what makes you sad.





Talk to a counselor.

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