Is my 6 year relationship over =( any advice?

hello to anyone who reads my letter. I am 20 years old ive been dating my girlfriend for 6 years already. We have survived a lot together and have grown together. We have also talked about having a future of marriage family, and growing old. Know its a long distant relationship again and her attitude towards me has change shes more cold, has an excuse to not talk to me but not for others, it doesn't feel the same anymore she doesn't want to let go and still loves me she tells me, and im trying my hardest not to let go. She told me its her and decided to find herself to make it stronger, but its gotten worse. Why hasn't she let go if she wanted to, did i lose my best friend and Did i lose the person i ever loved and wanted to grow old. Why out of nowhere too. But this is the very first in the whole six years I'm afraid and don't know what to do. And that never happensIs my 6 year relationship over =( any advice?
Its all about communication and what you do. There's a problem to be sure. If she says she loves you, you have to DECIDE whether or not to trust her and just go with it. FAITH and reassurance is what is needed most. Talk to her, don't dwell on it while talking with her. And do what keeps people together in the first place: make the best out of every moment you have with her (real life and virtual). Also, be ready to let her go. She's as much in this as you are, and that's her decision to make. But if you trust her, then by her own word she's not going anywhere! :) Hang in there buddy, in the end its all good. If its not all good, then its not the end!Is my 6 year relationship over =( any advice?
You seem like a VERY sweet guy. I dont want to see you hurt :[ Maybe yur girlfriend just needs a little space. Maybe she is stressing about something. Try to talk to her to maybe get things off of her chest.Im sure you will be fine. Good luck!
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All I can tell you is to keep supporting her. She probably needs some space or time to herself to pick herself up, so just encourage her with as much positive energy as possible. In the meantime, concentrate on making yourself better. Maybe she's being cold because she wants to see you improve? (But you stated it's her, so just help her out).





When is the last time you two have seen each other? If it's been over 3 months (based off this 6-year relationship), I would pack my stuff up and go visit her. Or if she can wait till summer, then make plans now.





This advice is not 100% though. Providing tips that may/may not work.
You're prolly just in that relationship not even for 3 years amirite amirite? Look brah, from what I'm reading it doesn't even sound like a two way relationship no more. She is changing and you are probably missing the old her of what she once was to you. I honestly don't see her returning to her original self so now you have a choice...





Just think about it for a long while whether you want to stay with her or not. She is not the same as she once was and even if she changed back you will have that stale feeling of her doing that to you in the first place (her changing on you and hurting you). She is most likely not doing this on purpose, but there is something wrong with this relationship if something as drastic as this is taking place.





Lost might be the first feeling you may be having, since it came out of nowhere. But stay focused and figure out if this pain and confusion is really worth it. It seems this is your first real love so that in itself will cloud your mind. Trust me, you will be feeling pain if you let her go even if it became the right choice. But don't let that stop you if that is your decision.





The pain will be temporary and the days may seem long for you right now but you should honestly use these days to just think. Uncloud your mind and ask yourself if this is worth it. Trust me, the pain worse than breaking up is staying with someone you love but hurts you and staying with someone but ended up breaking up and realizing you had so many opportunities but missed them because you ended up staying with the wrong girl.





Game is what you lost if this keeps going without a direction.


There is no lulz in this and realize this is serious. Keep your head up and ask her what her problem being in this relationship is. If she keeps the same answer or says she doesn't really know what she wants for herself or for the relationship then you should leave her because she is just wasting your time. Remember, you are not alone in this and know your fronds are still there for you, no matter what.