Im in a two month relationship with a very nice guy, But i think i may have rushed into it when i was left from my previous relationship in which he left me with a ten day old baby saying he never wanted the baby, and he hadnt felt anything for about a year.
This relationship im in now ive actually been proposed too which i have said yes too, so it did happen fast and he also now living with me. BUT now im feeling a bit unsure about it all, Hes a very insure man and puts me down alot when it comes to my ex seeing his son. I have got to the point where im friends with my ex and talk to him from time to time about OUR SON. but my bf goes mental!! Saying that hes made alot of sacrisfies for me, when he doesnt realise what it is ive done for him. ie introduced him to my son, let him live with me rent free, introduced him to my family, arguemnts from my ex about him being with my son so soon after the break. We broke up in feb. and its now august.
Bascially, how do i go about saying to him we need to slow down?? That i need help with the rent but i have tried before but it went over his head? He needs to slow down when it comes to saying things to me... IE he jumps down my throat when i stick up for my ex when his nan died and he was an half hour late picking up his son for the night...
Im very very stuck and i dont know what to do, PLUS my ex has made some moves onto me aswell which has confused me a hell of alot. As im still trying to put that 'friend' barrier up. Any advice would be very much thanked for. JessAny help?? Relationship problems .... Any advice?
1)tell ur ex you guys are over and he needs to accept that
2)tell ur boyfriend its only been a few months and you need time.
3)tell him you want to slow down. not only do you have ur own life to think about, u have ur suns.Any help?? Relationship problems .... Any advice?
get some time to think.
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