Long distance relationship, need some advice?

hi guys,


i need your input in this. I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 yrs and it hasn't been easy. like a couple of weeks i have been a bit stressed and in that time my boyfriend called and i missed his calls being that we are 8hrs different makes it even worse. a few days ago he called me and i was riding in a car with school mates and mostly were guys not that i am even close to them anyway i answered the phone and he heard them in the background and then he freaked out of who they are and i told him school mates but that didnt help and this was 11am so i said to him i will call him in a few when i get home because i did not wan't to fight with him at that time. to make it worse if anything i didn't have enough charge on my phone so i text him to say it was low so if he tried to call and it was off then he would know why!


so i get home half an hour later and he says to me you were lying, that he knew i was seeing someone else and that he doesnt want me to call him any more abd literally said get out of my life! i was shocked, why would he do this? what reason did i give him to say that i was seeing someone else? i don't understand why he says it over because of what? what should i do? i love him but i dont want to be with him if he cannot trust me.


p/s i would appreciate men to answer more to this pls.


thanxLong distance relationship, need some advice?
It sounds like he is a very possessive guy and doesn't want his girl to have a life. This is one of the worst kind of guys to get involved with, just let him go. Let him think that he dumped you, it's ok, he's not worth the worry. Try find a kind and understanding guy that is a lot closer to you. Long distance relationships have a very poor success rate.Long distance relationship, need some advice?
Long distance relationships are really tough... but if he really loves you, he will trust you. If you dont have trust, if any relationship, and especially a long distance relationship, it isn't going to work. Tell him you love him, u swear ur being honest, and leave the rest up to him.
Time to send him some X pics of you and tel him how you feel
I'm in a long distance relationship too and we're on 5 hr time difference so i know what your exactly going through.


it's hard, it really is.


but long distance relationships can work. if you guys really love each other. trust is the biggest key. my boyfriend had and still has (he hates to admit it) trust issues and so do i (he's cheated on me once), but you guys have to make it work to the best of ya'lls ability.


like they always say, ';love conquers all';


its a matter of how much love are both of you guys willing on putting into making it work.
Ugh, sorry, I'm a girl but you should consider it anyway...If your boyfriend would tell you to get out of his life like that and not find you trustworthy, he's probably stressed, lonely, insecure, or just down right scared. He may feel like you're running around on him even when you're not. I would suggest to tell him the what really happened again (maybe he just needed to cool off), and even if it comes to it suggest your relationship take a break. You can always pick it up in the future.