A serious relationship question. Any advice?

I am totally confused here. I wear my heart on my sleeve and also suffer from panic disorder. Anyway, I met a girl in April and we chatted a lot on the phone and online. I asked her out on a date but she declined saying that she's having a tough time in her life right now with work and a friend in an accident. As the weeks went by I still asked her out over and over but she politely declined. I gave up and thought it's just a friendship. Then I met another girl. She was really nice and I got the impression really sincere. Then one day she told me she had 20 previous partners. It's not THAT much but more than I'm used to she's 31. It threw me off but continued to see her. Then the first girl comes back and I told her I moved on. Then she agrees to see me. We went out for coffee but I didn't do anything out of respect. Anyway, I am having doubts sometimes about both girls. Last night the first one cried and said she made a mistake and wants to be with me.A serious relationship question. Any advice?
I know about panicking and all, but please you should really not take the world so serious,that it makes you get to that. You need to take time away, and you will figure it out. Don't worry truly be happy... :)A serious relationship question. Any advice?
If they already make your life miserable get over both of them-and find out if the one chick used rubbers while having sex if not dump her as s real fast
I think you need to lighten up a bit.....this is NO BIG DEAL. First, you don't have to commit to either one of them right away, you can even date another one on top of it all. Second...when a person is right for you, you know it..you may not know it right away, that is why it is good to take your time. Really man, no big deals here, you are just experiencing life....don't let anyone in to your head until you know them really well....I say have fun....just roll with it.
It sounds like both of these girls have issues. It also seems to me that the only reason why girl #1 even met with you is because you moved on to someone else.





I say dump both and get a new person.





Who advertises their partners like that anyway?
'; I wear my heart on my sleeve '; + '; She was really nice and I got the impression really sincere. Then one day she told me she had 20 previous partners '; seem's she wears her heart in the same place, hey i'm an x rock musician and had my share of girls, before i met my wife, the past is the past . . . this equasion is, 1 heart on the sleeve and one sincere and nice person, = 2 honest and


trustwothy people, what are you waiting for? you don't wanna do what first one did and then the 31 year old


decides to move on and finds another respectful you . . .
Flip a coin! We don't know! What if the one we pick turns out to be a bad pick, will you be mad at us for picking or yourself for asking?
Dude, you need to find a girl/woman with similar past as you.


Look for a woman with similiar intrests, hobbies, food tastes. If you do not, you will be tormented when she talks of other boyfriends/lovers. If you find a picture with old BF,or when she sees one when you are together. You will feel like you can not measure up.
All 3 of you have issues! you should stop seeing each other at once before I call the asylum. First off, no lady no matter how whorish or innocent should reveal the number of men shes been with....and my prediction is that you will always judge her based on that becasue thats what men do. Men want to or feel to atleast know that the woman they are with are innocent. Drop the 31 year old NOW and give the other train wreck a chance. Worst case scenerio is that you'll be back on the computer looking for another crazy chick.
Hi Liam, The first girl, give her another chance. Plain and simple, she just wants to take things slow. The second one (31 years old) tell her to take a hike. If she said she has had only 20 lovers, it probably is more true that she had 40 or 60. Good Luck sweetie! You sound like a great guy to me!!
i say move on from both, obviously 20 people was a lot to you or you wouldnt have had that reaction and the first girl only sounds like she wants you cus you are taken and its a challenge. its a mind game and you dont need that. remain friends with them if you want but i suggest you end it and move on to someone deserving.