I need advice on my relationship :(?

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. We get into arguments just like any other couple does, but last night he picked me up to spend the night at his house after he got off work and we started arguing with each other pretty bad. I tried to stop fighting with him because most of the time it works if I calm down and help him calm down, but he just kept yelling at me and I couldn't believe he was saying some of the things he was saying to me. And so finally I said something about how he thinks I'm just going to forgive him and have make up sex like he always expects us to, and he said, ';yeah, I know you'll forgive me because you always do.'; And it really pissed me off because he was basically saying that I was going to come running back to him like always. I know he loves me and I love him too but OMG he is SUCH a freaking jerk sometimes! What do I do when I have tried everything?





Please don't suggest that we break up or anything. Because it's not going to happen, I need real advice :/





Please help?I need advice on my relationship :(?
I agree. It's time to let him know that he's crossed the line and you're not going to deal with him when he acts like a jerk. He's expecting you to be the one to back down and give in, since you're the one who calms down first. But you don't have to do that. You can stand up for yourself and be the one who doesn't back down, and make him back down first for once. A little role reversal sometimes helps people realize what they've been doing and how it makes people feel. I wish you the best of luck!I need advice on my relationship :(?
The best way to deal with your boyfriend is to try to avoid and stop engaging in arguments and unneccesary confrontation with him. Also learn to say I am sorry whenever he tries to get you angry. If you follow these two rules, your boyfriend will change and love you more. What I expect after this is marriage. A word is enough for the wise
Simple, do the opposite of what he's expecting of you.


If he's saying you're going to run back to him like you always do, don't.


Anything he says just do the opposite and let him beg.


Let him know he's the wrong one here.
Make him feel he is doing wrong without hurting him.. When u both argue don't have sex at that time.. U stay calm.. and stay away from him for a while.. Then he will beg u..
ok, i'm going to say something thats going to sound immature at first, but you wont know until you try it; no makeup sex! you forgive, say nice things etc, but dont sleep with him until he apologizes, and you have to tell him what its all about (boys arent the best at guessing games). you have to make it clear to him that you cant just be treated however he wants to treat you, only because he knows that you love him and will do what it takes to make it work! just think about sometime down the line, he could just get worse and worse, and its not because im assuming he's evil or whatever, it's because habits just get worse and worse when they arent stopped in time. hope i helped!
He doesn't sound like much of a prize.





I agree with the doormat comment. You have shown that you can be abused, you accepted it. You have agreed it is okay, without saying it in so many words, but that is the tacit agreement now. And that can only go downhill.





I very strongly disagree with those who said, just avoid him, just apologize every time he gets mad at you. WTF?? a) that won't help and b) your behavior isn't the problem and c) you can't always avoid the guy, and d) running away won't solve this, at any rate.





So, ask yourself, is this love? Is this what love looks like?





Ask yourself, does he love me or does he just love to have sex and here I am? Does he really love me or does he just love to upset me, to abuse me?





Is he upset about something else and just taking it out on me because I am not as big as he is, and I am available? Is he mentally ill, because irritability and excessive anger are symptoms of some things.....?





You say you get into arguments like any other couple, but not all couples argue a lot. Or even much at all. Don't assume that arguing is normal. It ISN'T. Not at all! If we think so, it is because we have seen so many dysfunctional marriages.





If you have tried everything, it's not you. It's him. And it isn't going to get better, it's going to get worse. And it's going to get bad. Been there, done that.





By the way, are you walking on eggshells trying not to upset him? If you feel like that, google walking on eggshells and see what you get.





Honey, I am going to suggest you break up. Sorry about that, but it's the truth. If you don't listen now, you'll be sorry later.
if your genuinely upset by all this, show him your upset, and don't forgive him and go running back to him.


If he loves you, he will soon give in and come running back to you, and he'll be really sorry and regret saying what he did because he upset you.


Tell him you want to talk and talk about all the things he said that hurt you and confused you, ask him why he was saying those things and just talk when your both in a calm mood.


You just need to walk away whenever he gets in a mood with you when you know your right and haven't done anything wrong, just tell him to talk to you when he's calmed down and to not upset you.

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