Long Distance Relationship Problems! Need Advice!!!!?

So i've been dating this boy..over the internet...for some weeks..


We chat on msn.. but most of the time he's ';Busy';..'Cause when i message him sometimes he doesn't answer me %26amp;%26amp; we barely talk..%26gt;.%26gt; %26amp;%26amp; he says he loves me [[Yesterday when i asked him if he does]] But he never tells me it..unless if he's horny..


When he's horny he starts telling me that he wants to be with me he wants me to go there to USA where he lives..[['Cause i'm not from USA]] %26amp;%26amp; starts telling me that he loves me..%26amp;%26amp; all those cute things..But i know that he might only be thinking about having sex with me..'Cause he only says those things when we're talking about sex..


%26amp;%26amp; Always that he tells me that he wants to be with me is because he wants to have sex.


But yesterday he told me again that he wishes i could go there %26amp;%26amp; i asked him why would he wish that %26amp;%26amp; he said ';I wanna hold you';...


%26amp;%26amp; Most of the time he's like ';%26amp;%26amp; I better be the first'; like i'm virgin.. :$ %26amp;%26amp; he wants to be the first guy.


%26amp;%26amp; On msn he never message me first.. ..%26gt;.%26gt; I'm always the one who says hi to him first..so if i stay 1 week without messaging him..we'll stay 1 week without talking..'cause i know he won't message me..


But i dunno what to think anymore..Sometimes i think that he loves me..%26amp; sometimes i think that the only reason he wants me is to have sex...%26amp;%26amp; is trying to get me to go there.





So..what do you think about all this..%26amp;%26amp; what do you think i should do?Long Distance Relationship Problems! Need Advice!!!!?
Well, if it's only online you aren't dating. You are just online flirting. Also, you can't LOVE someone you have never met. You don't even know if there is any chemistry between the two of you.





I personally think it's odd to be talking about sex with someone you've never met and have never even kissed. You have no idea who he really is. For all you know, he's married and just getting off on this. Or he's some 50 year old man trying to lure you away - like that 49 year old rapist guy last week in the UK who lured that 15 year old girl to France.Long Distance Relationship Problems! Need Advice!!!!?
I read the whole thing and my honest opinion is that you should stay away from him. If he doesn't start a conversation with you then there's why should you start one with him? As hard as it is to hear, it sounds like he is only talking with you for horny conversations. He doesn't love you. He doesn't even know you. Block him for good.
ok, Long distance relationship only works when two people put the effort....Have you met this guy before?....If you are having problem with him like this and all he wants is sex, and he doesnt message you...I suggest find a boyfriend from where you are from and get rid of him. Honey...You dont need this.
long distance is very tough and is just an obstacle you two have to overcome. best of luck!
long distance is hard, but trust me, if he's the right guy, it will work. i know for experience! But he sounds like a creep. Better off to keep looking! best of luck!
this type of relationships are hard 2 mantain i mean u could b faithful 2 him/her or they could b cheatin and so they not good luck.
amor de lejos es amor de pendejos lol mmmm basically dump him!
He doesn't love you. He doesn't even have a crush on you. He's just going along with things in the hope of getting some easy sex. Forget him.
I met a guy from England on a cruise I took 3 years ago and we ended up having a relationship for a little while. It was hard work but we really did care for each other so we tried our best to make it work. However, we were both young (18) and realized we should be doing other things that worrying about our long-distance relationship. But we had actually met and spent 2 weeks together before dating. If you only know this guy from the internet, it's not a real relationship. It can't be real until you meet, which could also be potentially dangerous.
My friend used to like this guy, Nathan and she asked me to add him and talk to him and stuff.. and i did, and we ended up becoming really good friends. He lives pretty far so i've never actually met him, it is constant flirting and trying to make the other one jealous between me and him. And he says all this cute stuff to me, and tells me he wants to marry me and all these silly things, but i think hes just saying this because he knows ill probably never meet him in real life. I personally dont believe in long distance relationships, i mean especially if you havent met the person. I know the Nathan is real, because he went to school with my friend, but how do you know this guy is even who he says he is.. If he only talks to you like that when hes horny he obviously just wants you to talk dirty to him. I think you should end it.. long distance relationships are usually just between people who are afraid to be with the person they love all the time. Maybe you're really just afraid to be with someone near you. Someone who might actually love you back and wont just be saying it because hes horny.
He's just not that into you! REALLY!!!!!!!!!!!!


He's immature and just doing the horny guy thing.


Get yourself some real friends -- doesn't need to be a particular boyfriend. You will see that hanging out with friends will fill the emptiness you seem to be feeling.


You seem ';desperate'; begging for attention from this loser.





Every person should have someone who wants them as much as they need to be wanted. If you haven't met that person yet --- don't worry -- You will!