ok so.. my boyfriend and i broke up October 2007.. the day he started college.. he met a new girl in his class and to my knowledge they were dating (he says they werent but o well) now i go to the same college and its just a small college... and she is in his class and i see her everywhere :( we are now back together and engaged... but seeing her is very hard... i know, i have him and she doesnt but it doesnt take away the fact that the pain i felt last year doesnt come storming back everytime i see or even think of her.. no matter how many times or people say im alot prettier then her and all that.. it still hurts :( some people say i should just show her up kinda thing, and some ppl say to avoid her but like i said, VERY small school.. in his class, kinda hard to completely avoid seeing herUghh.. kinda of a relationship problem.. need advice!!?
Are you sure you are ready to be married to a guy you do not feel that you can trust 100%? That is the issue, not her or you....it sounds like you are afraid he will do this again once your back is turned. She is just the reminder if what HE did to you....I really would go see the school counselor or get one out of school and work through this. You need to get past this for YOURSELF, not him or her at all. AND you need time to rethink who you are and what you are worth. Being engaged does not mean he is worthy of your trust, but it does not mean he is not either. I think your issue runs much deeper than just seeing this girl, it is what she represents that makes you nutty, and this will not go away unless you deal with it, even if she were to leave. Very interresting once you think of it huh? Mull it over. Call a counselor of some sort and get on with it.
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