I NEED ADVICE ON MY RELATIONSHIP!!?

Im reposting because i only got one answer


im 20..i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years.. so when i was in the 8th grade... we started dating.. and he has been my boyfriend ever since... back in school he was the star football player.. he was the finest, funniest dude... everyone wanted to be his girl...


but he was mine.. and we fell in love... well its been 6 years... and its like i feel like things are fading... and not on his part.. its on mine... latly i have been feeling like i dont want to be bothered with him, and i dont want him to hug on me and kiss on me.. it makes me feel bad that im having these feelings.. he has changed so much since back then.. you can tell he just wants to make me happy, he wants to hug me and hold me and kiss me and tell me how pretty i am.. but deep inside there is this feeling... that i just cant explain.. its like im bored... but i love him.. i cant imagine him with anyone else... we live together in a house.. so i cant just leave... im a mess and i need advice... hes a good guy.. he really is... but he lost his job a few monthes ago... so he doesnt have much money.. he has been trying really hard to get a job.. but no one will hire him... i have been paying all the bills for 3 monthes... so i guess im irritated with that.. i dont know but i need help and any advice would be nice.


I NEED ADVICE ON MY RELATIONSHIP!!?
you should try relighting the flame. try going out and doing something really fun! like for one weekend go somewhere and just have fun. go bumgee jumping, or something like that! relight it and if that doesn't work wait it out and ask yourself if you want to break up and move on or do you just need a mini breakI NEED ADVICE ON MY RELATIONSHIP!!?
Nay, Nay,Nay,


relax, he's not the only one that's lost his job. you're not the only 'other' 1/2 of a couple paying the bills. it's going on world wide. from what you've said about you're 'BO' the worst thing to happen is for you to lose him over something either one of ya'll can control. it's human nature for problems to exist. hang together, don't lose a good partner over stress. welcome his play fullness. at least he's trying. he's taking things the way you should be. 1 day at a time. come on Nay.......go give him a hug and tell him you love him........
Because you are asking for advise concerning you and your man, tells me that you want your relationship to survive. The fact that he has fallen on hard times and you have to carry the responsibility of keeping the bills paid is primarily the reason that you feel the way you do. It is not easy being the bread winner in a household and it is even harder when the other partner can not seem to find work. One thought that is probably floating through your head that you did not say is ';I wonder if he really is looking for a job?'; The economy sucks right now and good jobs are hard to find, so remember how much you love him and standby him things will get better.