Ex-boyfriend/relationship issues, any advice is appreciated :)?

Okay so first of all, I'll give you a little background information on my situation and try not to bore you too much.


-- My ex-boyfriend and I broke up late last September, and it was definitely the hardest break-up I've ever been through. We only dated for a few months, but during that few months we spent a LOT of time together and it was the first real relationship I'd had so naturally I grew pretty attached. After the break up, I couldn't get him off of my mind. We both went separate ways and he eventually started dating another girl, but they broke up fairly recently for some reason. I had grown used to it and though I still missed him and thought about things occasionally, it was no longer an issue for me. We remained on good terms with each other, but only talked one time.





About a week ago, I got a text from him asking how I was and we talked for a few hours and got along great. Later that week, I was having some friends over and decided to invite him and his friends. While we were talking alone in our room and everyone else was downstairs, he kept bringing up old times and turning on some of our songs, and then we kissed and things got a little heated up, but we did not do anything else except kissing because he had to leave soon and our friends were right downstairs. He even invited me to go bowling with him and some of his friends on valentines day. We were supposed to get together at my house yesterday, but plans changed and it didn't work out. He texted me asking if we would've finished off where we left off on the night we kissed, and i told him that i'm not sure if i wanted to have sex with him because i didn't wan't to develop feelings for him again. Neither him or I really want to be tied down to a relationship right now...but i don't want to lose him from my life. We started talking about having a ';friends with benefits'; deal, and of course he was all for that. I told him that I would think about it. The more I think about it, the more i can't decide though. Both of us want to have sex, but i'm afraid that if i do it'll bring back too many old feelings and i'll be left in love with him again and he won't feel the same way.





Is there anyone out there that has any advice for me on what to do? Any is truly appreciated, and please be honest...even if it's brutal. Thank you all, and sorry it's so long!Ex-boyfriend/relationship issues, any advice is appreciated :)?
.b_a FWB situation only benefits the guy.He has all the comforts of home,without commitment and generally without expense.As no romance is required on his part. Only being sociable as required.You will find him much more romantic if you sleep alone.Sex doesn't cement relationships.It destroys them.Ex-boyfriend/relationship issues, any advice is appreciated :)?
i thinks he is just in it for the sex the sex decision is up to you but i think he can't move on