Not sure where my relationship's going - advice?

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 1/2 years... i'm 24, he's 25. we've lived together for 5 years.


Just recently he's been talking to me like i mean absolutely nothing to him. For example, i control our finances and when he's going out with the lads (which i have no problem with) i'll remind him not to go over the top and watch what he spends. Last weekend i said this to him and the tone of his voice suddenly changed and he reacted so aggressively it shocked me. He's actually started shouting at me and i really can't take it. I don't cry easily, but growing up with a mum and dad who went from not talking to each other for weeks at a time (living in the same house) to arguing, it's all too familiar and i'm probably hypersensitive about it.


I love him to bits, i really do, but we've not spoken to each other since yesterday even tho we live together. I don't want to be the first one to talk... he's the one that shouted at me for no reason.... Not sure where my relationship's going - advice?
i think you need to sit down and address the issue. this is not something fresh or new where you don't really know each other. this is your life and you really need to know. swallow ur pride and go to him, u need to look after urself and give a directon to ur life so dont let pride stop you.


You know, people change. Perhaps something is going on with him that you have't noticed, that happens easily when you're so close to someone and think you know them so well. That's all i can say, go and talk to him but dont argue and be as nice as you can. I know you're hurt but if you're aggressive, angry, frustrated etc he will only mirror it.


Take care and best of luckNot sure where my relationship's going - advice?
Well just ask him what his problem is and why he had a go at you for no reason.


put your foot down and say that he had no right speaking to you like he did.


and if he gets agressive again just tell him that you love him but you dont like whats happening to your relationship so it has to change or its over, get your point across otherwise it will just carry on..





he is probly thinking the same thing as you, he doesnt want to speak first so it seems uve won.
you know sometimes silence is the only way, but dont let your self get lost in your own pride, try to talk and find out what is really wrong, what ever you do do not start saying he is seeing someone else, dont get to defensive as from personal experience that never gets you anywhere
You sound realy nice .. You shouldnt be with him if you're not happy! He sounds inconsiderate ! ... add me on facebook , im going through the same **** at the moment with my girlfriend...





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