Friday, January 8, 2010

Insecure in my relationship! need some advice!?

Ok so I'm in a relationship with the most amazing guy ever, he loves me, I love him, he does everything for me, he's just perfect for me. Here's the thing, at first I was real confident and I was just carefree, because I knew if we broke up I wouldn't care. But now it's been 5 months and I'm really beginning to feel scared! Last couple of relationships have been abusive, and I've been lied to, I'm scared to just let myself go and have this all happen again! Can anybody tell me what I can do? Thank you!Insecure in my relationship! need some advice!?
have confidence in yourself and dont look for trouble when there isnt any .Your boyfriend chose you to be with dont doubt yourself and lose your confidence as your boyfriend loves you and you tell yourself when you begin to have those fears that he chose me because iam a lovely person and that is why he wants to be with me . if you start acting scared and hold back on your boyfriend he wont know why and that is when you may experience trouble . why dont you discuss it with your boyfriend and tell him your fears .Insecure in my relationship! need some advice!?
Just be aware. That is all you can do. Look for signs of controlling behavior and anything else that was similar to previous abusive relationships. Remain a independent women. Treat each other as equals. If he does the same your most likely fine.





Good luck I hope things turn out well. Don't live in fear of the past. The past is just there for learning. Now apply what you have learned to this relationship. Be strong and keep your head up.





I am sure everything is fine you just seem nervous about being hurt again and this is totally normal.
Has he done anything in the past that made you insecure? If not than I wouldn't worry about something like this.
Well, the thing is, you have to just ';let yourself go';....i understand the fear you might have, but dont let past experiences ruin this one, be confident in ur relationship and the man you're with. One important thing might be even to express your feelings/fears to the guy you're with...communication is a key to a great relationship
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