A confusing relationship problem(Your advice is greatly appreciated!)?

I am 15 (a freshman) and my boyfriend is going to be 18 in less than a month (senior.) We've been dating for two months and we fight constantly. I start every fight but I only start the fight because he triggers them all. Like, for instance he would forget to call me and hangout with his friends and I would be sitting at my house alone waiting for him to call me to talk to me, and like he swears at me and I hate swearing. Also, he NEVER puts me first. I put him before everybody, I even pick him over hanging out with my best friend but he never puts me before his friends and I end up being alone. He never wants to resolve any of our fighting but he's so sick of it so instead he just tells me how much he loves and cares for me, but I feel like something is missing. I honestly, truly do love him, just I don't understand why I feel like something is missing.





Hopefully this makes sense for you to help me out here. Thank you so much!A confusing relationship problem(Your advice is greatly appreciated!)?
Perhaps you should take a step back and play him at his own game - for example, put your best friend before him, tell him you'll call but then 'forget'. If it doesnt appear to bother him then maybe he just wanted space. If it does bother him eg. he asks you whats up, tell him that thats how he made you feel when he put his friends before you.





Try not to read too much into his behaviour; it might just be that he's the sort of guy who likes his own personal space and time to spend with his friends. Also, if you love him, there's plenty of time for you to be getting serious so don't worry too much if you're not spending every single day together yet.





Also, instead of arguing with him, either ignore the fact that he forgot to call or simply ask why he didnt - don't start a massive row about it, guys don't generally like confrontation and this might be why he's continuing to put his mates first. The less you argue the closer he'll feel to you.





Good luck :)


xA confusing relationship problem(Your advice is greatly appreciated!)?
Dump him, there are better guys out there.