my situation:i live in england and for just over a year i have been speaking to a girl in america. we liked each other for ages and used to say ';i love u'; not meanin it to a huge extent altho we did rly like each other... ne way.. she got a bf over there... i found a girl i like nd we saw each other... then a week ago the girl in america sed ';i love u'; out of the blue and tht she thinks of me wenever she wiv her bf nd tht shes gonna break up with him... nd i just cried.. i hav no idea why i just did.. i then told the girl i had kinda been seein i needed a week to think about sum stuff.. then last nite i told her about this girl in america... nd u can guess her reaction.. upset angry and not sure if she can trust me altho i never intended on this bcoz i do rly like her... just my feelins for the girl in america r just different.. i rly do think i love her.. if i dnt choose the girl here she wil not tlk to me nd wil hate me.. but i stil cnt b wiv the girl in america.. but if i choose the girl here the girl in america will not wanna keep contact.... please help and reply soon! thanksLong distant relationship... rly need advice.HELP!!!?
dont believe anyone that says long distance relationships NEVER work out because they do. however, if you are having doubts about it, then it might not be the right choice. it hurts to have to let someone go, but it may be worth it in the end because it could end up hurting you worse than it would have to break it off initially. i say try to stay with girls within your own country unless you can truly see yourself in a future with this american girl. it is possible but it takes a lot of committment and sacrifice, much more than would be required for your typical short distance relationship. it all depends on your level of maturity and whether or not you believe that there is a good chance of staying with this girl. you need to ask her about it too though. talk to her about it, whether or not she would be willing to let go of all the things typical of a normal relationship. you wont have a normal relationship like everyone else. you wont ever get to see each other, your fights will be over who gets to come see who and how often and there may be trust problems. you have to have lots of trust in your partner to be in a long distance relationship, and i dont know if you are ready for that since you sound so hesitant and you cant even choose who you would rather be with anyway. just know that it is a big sacrifice and it would be a much easier route for both you and the american girl in the long run for you to stay with the girl in england. im not saying it isnt possible though. Long distant relationship... rly need advice.HELP!!!?
Hold up.. dont go any further plz, i live in america and i dated someone from england for almost a year and i found out he was cheating on me.. i would not recomment long distance relationships, they never work out, trust me.
long distant relationship doesn't last long
breaking relationship is not easy always for everyone
however, it just a moment ,
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