Friday, January 8, 2010

Need advice/opinion regarding relationship matter.?

In a relationship over a year. Just recently found out he is still active on Match.com. No formal commitment, but see him generally every day. Should I be concerned or just ignore?Need advice/opinion regarding relationship matter.?
well if he's not into you go away n hav a lifeNeed advice/opinion regarding relationship matter.?
I would really need a definition of ';no formal commitment';. Do you mean you are not boyfriend and girlfriend? Or not engaged or anything? Big difference here.


Men will look... Really there are no two ways about it. Many men, even while in a relationship still shop for the next best thing. It depends on what he is looking for. You say no formal commitment and I immediately think of friends with benefits. In that case, he has every right to continue shopping while he eats your groceries.


If he is your boyfriend, and he sees things that way as well, then you probably should ask him about this. If you have been together for a year there should be some good communication between the two of you, so talk about it.
What do you mean by ';no formal commitment'; but yet yall have been in a relationship for over a year?





Sometimes you gotta speak a language a man can understand. If it was me I would get an account on there and view his profile so he knows you're on there. I guarantee he will be the one to bring it up once he knows you're on there too. If he gets ticked about it then say well maybe we both should delete our accounts. I would NOT be more emotionally invested in a relationship than they are.





If he's not your boyfriend then that means both of you are free to see other people.
I suggest you talk to him. Ask him if he conciders you to be his boyfriend. If he says yes, ask him about the site. Don't bug him about it, though. Just bring it up. If he seems nervous, you should be worried, but if he responds calmly that it's nothing or he forgot about having been on it, don't be worried.

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