Well ive been seeing this guy for about 3 weeks now (were both 15)
He is really amazing but theres something wrong!
Last night we went out to this under 18's club thing with some of my friends and his friends and i just didnt have a good time at all.
It was good to see him and everything (i can only see him a couple of times a week because he lives quite far away).
I do like him, but its not like angels are singing in my head everytime i see him. I get little butterflies when he touches me but nothing really major.
When im not with him, it hurts... and when im not with him i wanna kiss him and hug him but when i actually see him i'm too scared!
So most of the time were just stood there hugging - but not actually saying anything.
Also, last night when we had to go home he was like ';see you later, love you';
I do like him, but im not INLOVE with him... but i really want to be because he is amazing.. i wish i could force myself to be head over heals in love with him.
I really dont wanna loose him because i do feel like theres something there but i think i need to sort out my insecurities first cause im having to deal with a lot of family problems right now - which i think is sort of putting up a barrier between us too
thanks :) xReally Confused In My Relationship - Need Some Advice?
Here is my opinion, relationships are very complicated for the first few weeks. Sometimes, there is a honeymoon period, where the couples will rejoice in their passion towards each other every time they meet, until they lose interest and enter a more dull portion of their relationship. Although this seems flattering, and you may hear about it or may have experienced it... it is usually not a strong basis for a relationship. At this point in time, I think that it is too close to call. Give your relationship at least another month or two and see what unfolds. You may gradually develop strong feelings for him (which is a healthier way to go about forming a relationship) or the feelings that you have when you are not with him may subside. Let time carry your emotions to truth. If you eventually realize that your relationship just isn't going to work, but you want to keep your options open for the future with him, keep him close. Don't hurt his feelings too much, but after you two adjust to the new circumstances, attempt to build a friendship. In your situation, it is usually at this point when you realize that your feelings towards each other are stronger than ever.Really Confused In My Relationship - Need Some Advice?
i think, see where it goes if he asks you out do it because you only 15 why not have some fun you like him, your not in love with him but you like him, maybe if you go out with him you might actually fall for him.
ok you are fifteen, not time to be falling in love and if you're SCARED when you are around him then maybe you end this relationship, n if he says he loves you at this age, he is lying to get into your panties hunny
nt the rit age
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