Can anyone give me some advice on a very unhealthy relationship i have been in ?

I meet this man about 2 yrs ago...he was just obsessed with me. He treated me like a queen I was not used to being treated like a woman should be treated as my husband never even bothered to give me a hug. this man sent me cards all the time and wanted to be with me everyday. Also takes me on trips and always buys everything I never pay for anything. Things have turned so bad though he acts like he never meant anything by doing all of these things..we fight all the time we ruin nice trips we go on..I cheat on him but always want him back ...the sex is very good and I cannot be without him..the tables have definitely turned so now I leave it to you to give me some advice? Also I told him I loved him before and he gets very irrate and asks me why are u doing this...crazy...but I let myself be in this relationship everything is all messed up now.Can anyone give me some advice on a very unhealthy relationship i have been in ?
This may sound really harsh but I don't care because for the simple fact that we are both women I'm going to tell it like it is. YOU NEED TO GET OUT! RUN VERY FAST AND DON'T LOOK BACK! IT WILL NOT GET BETTER.


What do you love? The sex? The gifts, the obsession? That's not love it's co-dependency. Move on and don't let him pull you under. You cheat on him? That's love? COME ON! Get the hell out!Can anyone give me some advice on a very unhealthy relationship i have been in ?
Ah you need to back out and take a serious break! One thing I know is crazy is contagious. I was with a girl and knew she was nuts and I mean certifiable!! One thing I did not notice is that I was becoming just as crazy by not leaving.. The crazy becomes normal and you put up with more and don't even notice how crazy you have become... So take a break because it sounds like you have noticed the issues. Now run while your still sane!!!
Did he say he loves you?





if not, he might be view this a ';sponsorship'; relationship - he spends his time and money in exchange for your company and sex, but no emotinal involvement.


People from the southern cultures or developing countries are sometimes likely to do that.
You are sexually attracted to abusive, possessive men. This is the type of relationship that excites you. While this is going on you are cheating on him because it is more important to have an orgasm than a meaningful relationship. Just break up with him and bed the entire NFL. Don't get pregnant and don't get a STD.


When you are done looking for orgasms and want a meaningful relationship then look for men that are stable and not ones that give you orgasms.
Is he the same nationality as you?





Just wait til you have kids, and the very thing you hate about him, breeds. Playing games may not be your thing, but here you are.
hmmm...Not my place to take sides here but I am curious if maybe the cheating had something to do with him becoming irrate...Sounds like maybe you are taking things for granted and using him...
I think if he really loves you then he'd want only the best for you. I've seen some stuff like this on Dr. Phil, and maybe you should take some time off apart from him for a little while so you can think about everything. I think true love lasts, even after obsession.
Love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking together in the same direction.


Love is a condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.


Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will find them gradually, without noticing it, living along some distant day into the answer.