I don't think that you can expect to ';keep'; your relationship in the exact same state that it is in now. Your relationship wil undergo changes being that you and your boyfriend will not be seeing each other as much. You will also be meeting tons of new people and experiencing things in life that you never have before.
The key to keeping your relationship healthy is communication. The more you share your feeling with your bf the better things will be between you. This way everyone is on the same page.
Remember that you have your whole life ahead of you and that you may discover while you are away from your boyfriend that perhaps your relationship isn't what you though it was or maybe that all your needs aren't being met. So remember to keep an open heart and mind... this along with constant open communication between you two should give you the best chance if it is meant to be.I'm going off to college in the fall and I need advice on how to keep my relationship strong with my boyfriend
try your best to reserve your spare time for him.
technology has made long distance communications much easier than before.
There're many ways to keep in touch closely with him.
1. phone calls
2. online chatting
3. email messages
so both of you can talk to each other whenever you are both free.
if possible it'd be good if he goes to visit you in college or you visit him in where he is, not often but once in a while.
Good luck.
An hour and a half is not far. You can and have the power to maintain a healthy relationship with him. Are you worried that you will meet someone or he will meer someone? If that is how you feel then you shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone. If you have tust and honesty in your relationship then the distance shouldn't be a problem. I know some people who were able to maintain a healthy relationship while living on different coast while attending school. Good Luck
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