Okay first off, I'm the boyfriend. I've been with my girlfriend for about 2 and a half months now. She broke up with her ex in July. She told me the things he did that made her feel like crap. Until she finally had enough and broke up with him. He was in high school while we are still in 8th grade. One day she started flirting with me to get her ex-friend jealous because she liked me. Until i got her number and i actually started talking to her, the more i talked to her the more we grew attracted to each other. I finally asked her out and she said yes! Now for the main thing: Today we we're supposed to spend some time together, but her dad told her she can forget about it. She started arguing with him (so I'm told) until he started giving her the ';lecture';. He started asking her all these questions, ';will he be able to provide for you? Will he always treat you right? Is he the right one for you?'; Until he told her to not waist her time on me. She also told me in lunch that he said he liked Vincent better (her ex).
I don't know what to do, Friday is the last day I'll get to see her because we're going into winter break and her dad won't even let me visit her. I'm not a bad person, neither am i saying I'm perfect, but i haven't done anything wrong....... I really want to spend some time with her because the hall monitors and security guards and teachers are always on our asses in school, I can't even hug her in school. I started to think to myself ';will this relationship even work out if it keeps going like this?'; I know we're young, but I've gotten really attached to this girl. Her dad seriously doesn't like me and I don't know why, for instance today after school i was saying goodbye because her dad was down the block, i reach my arms out to give her a hug and her dad starts beeping really violently. like he doesn't want me anywhere near her. I don't know where to stand or put my face in at this point, does anyone have any advice?Can someone give me advice on my teenage relationship, please?
Well first ofall I think y'all are really to young tobe going through all ofthis. Your barely in 8th grade and your already stressed over something you shouldn't have to be. If she really did care for you, she would sit down and have a long talk with her dad about you. And if you really cared about her as much as you say you do then you would be there with her and tell him how you feel. But staying with her and putting up with everything is 100% up to you.
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