Relationship problem...i need your advice.?

i am in the military and have a relationship with someone that ranks higher than me. we get along good and i am happy....well until today. we had our family and friends day and to keep people from being suspicous of us we didnt really talk to each other as much. things between us are kept on the low until i get out of the military in about a year. well today and for the last few days i have been noticing that he has been talking and laughing with this other female and it makes me upset. i asked him about it and he says that he just talk to other females so wont nobody suspect anything between us. he said that he loves me and he would never do anything to hurt me. true enough i dont wont the wrong person finding out about us and we both get in trouble but when he talks to other females in a flirtatious way, it makes me so mad. i try not to show it but it hurts me. like i said we get along good and i am happy with him. do you think that i am overreacting? i need your advice...thanks.Relationship problem...i need your advice.?
I would fell the same way but you need to ask him how he would feel it it was on the other shoe. Maybe he could tone it down a bit with them. But if this is going to work than I guess you will have to deal with it, but he needs to be more understanding.Relationship problem...i need your advice.?
Sounds like this relationship is starting off with a lie, you're both pretending their isn't one! Why shouldn't he act the way he has been..... if he can do it, then you can too.





A year of hiding is a lot to ask.
No your definetly not over reacting. I mean who came blame a woman for wanting to feel safe?