I am not happy because of my relationship status...any advice?

I am confused and I need some advice. Ever since I can remember I've thought about the day when I could meet ';the one'; and have a family. I feel like I've lived my life, I'm 26 and done with school so there is nothing holding me back from starting a relationship. I feel like everyone around me has somebody except me and I get really envious and mad about it.





The catch is, I can't seem to meet the right man. I want someone who I am attracted to physically and mentally....meaning he needs to stimulate my minds and my body. So far, I only get one or the other....the guy will either be attractive and we fight all the time or the guy will be unattractive and we get along great. I hate the fact that everyone around me are happy and have perfect relationships. I have an idea of my man in my head and he just won't come along.





I'm really tired of being alone. I don't want to end up being an old maid. What should II am not happy because of my relationship status...any advice?
It seems as though you are creating your own demise in this part of your life. You seem to have had many nice relationships but in your opinion the ones you are into, do not appeal to you physically. I think you are not giving the ones that you have a great time with a fair chance. Looks are not everything. Think about the ones with great personalities and do you not see them through different eyes as time goes by, because their personality is so appealling they just seem to get physically more appealling to you? Maybe you should be giving the nice guys more of your time, you just might be pleasantly surprised. As time goes by even those good looking ones, loose their looks and then what is left ? Think about it, Good luck and all the best.I am not happy because of my relationship status...any advice?
your still quite young, the right one will come along, however, men, about your age, are still quite immature, ..try dating a bit older men, if you havent done so already, about 35 or s, thats when men, tend to grow up a bit, ...


dont look in nightclubs or bars either.





try the online thing, if you've never done it, try it. Many men dont hang at clubs, the ones who have lives and good careers anyway. Try church or other socials.


again, youre young, the right one will come, and you
Don't even look...do other things...get involved in things you are passionate about..move around a bit...maybe the choice of men where you live is limited. When you least expect it...he will be there..and it will be most unexpected. You also can rely on family and friends who know you best to introduce you to quality people...do not despair...love will find you
Just be patient and don't settle for less than what you want just to be in a marriage or you will forever regret it. You are still young and you will eventually find the man that meets all your relationship needs.
nobody is perfect


are you perfect or without any annoying habits?


i think marraige is what you make of it, acceptance and tolerance of the other's personality-good and bad
Don't be mad. Try eHarmony.com I know some people that found a life partner, hubby or wife, there. You are still young, as soon as you are ready love will come to you. Try to be happy and love yourself.
Some times you have to lower your standards. If you are too picky then you won't find a man.
wow.
A lot of people feel like you do...I got married at age 30 precisely because I didn't want to rush into anything...All my friends were married by the time I got hitched. ( So...Yes, I can understand the feeling of being alone while others seem happy.)





Please remember that there is a lot of pressure to get married or to have a Significant Other...but there is no guarantee that being in a relationship will make you happy, either. We are responsible for our own happiness...No one can MAKE us happy, except ourselves.





Besides, perfection does not exist! Many people seem to have it all; but they all have problems!





Don't fret, and don't settle, either. We must love, respect and accept ourselves first, before attempting to find someone who will do the same. You are still too young to think you might become an old maid!





Good luck...Be patient, and ask God to send you the right man at the right time.
Never rush into a serious relationship. Always take your time to get to know the person throughly well. A person true colors will shine after living with them for a whiles. Date many boyfriends, until you find the one, that sticks out the most. LIke for example for me in my case. I dated 15 girlfriends many years ago. Out of all the 15 gf, only one sticked out the most. She was the ultimate best g/f I every had in my life. We had lots and lots of great times together. Its was great memories. I will never forget this particular g/f of the deep past. GL