Tuesday, April 27, 2010

I have messed up a relationship i need advice ?

Ive been dating this girl for about a year and a half now and what i didnt know that i have done is that i controled her and she was commited to me and i controled her and i ruined alot of her realtionships with her friends. But i didnt realize that i did it. And now she has dumped and its like she refuses to speak to me and she wont go back out with me and shes acting like somthing that shes not and idk what to do at all. I need some adviceI have messed up a relationship i need advice ?
give her a moment where she has no choice to talk to u and tell her dat your really sorri and talk to her friends toI have messed up a relationship i need advice ?
maybe find a new girl and don't ruin that new girls other relationships
Heeey.. bad news... but ever think.. that u said shes never been like that, maybe youve changed her to be that person.uve ruined her relationship with her friends so maybe she wants to ruin yours and hers relationship.. i dont know to be honest... hope you sort it out soon .. something like that happened between me and a guy didnt speak for about 3 months but now we talkin again good luck x
well good that you admit your faults...





but maybe she has moved on and is focusing on getting her friends and other relationships straight... also maybe she was always like this and since u controlled her so much you now think that she not being herself... when truly u didn't let her be herself... u should move on... cuz she has...
Well I do not see how you didn't know you were controlling her... that is something that is pretty easy to see. I think that she has probably changed now, and she is who she acts like now. You say that she is acting like someone that she is not, but who are you to tell her who she is. Maybe your controlling her made her change her personality! You need to step back and let this girl do and be who she wants. If she has any desire for you to be in her life then she will come to you. You need to realize that you had your chance and you ruined it. If she does not want to allow you to have another chance then you don't get one.

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