I need some advice about my relationship?

I was with a girl for 15 months and it was pretty good Until about the 7th month I was with her and thought about this dare that she did. The dare that she did, which was before I was with her was lick nacho cheese off of my ex best friends stomach(we all worked at the movie theater and they had a cheese dispensing machine). I had a chance to get with her knowing that she did that and I didn't care because she was so beautiful. So I got with her and it was great. Then after seven months my insecurity kicked in because i fell in love with her and I started thinking about what she did with my ex best friend and it was killing me because i felt like i got seconds. So I broke up with her and then I really missed her so I got back with her. Recently I started thinking about it again for some reason and then i seen that she was texting a dude she use to have a thing for back in the days (she told me they liked each other) so I just broke up with her again. I would talk to her about it but all she ever does is make it seem like everything is my fault. Is it really my fault? What should I do?I need some advice about my relationship?
Yeah, it really is your fault.





When you're with someone and they're honest about their past, you're not allowed to use it against them. Your girlfriend is being honest with you about the dare and the fact that she used to have feelings for some guy. So what? You're young and feelings come and go. Be glad she's being honest with you. She apparently thought you were mature enough to respect her for telling the truth. Looks like she was wrong.





You're too immature for a serious relationship. I'm sure you've kissed a few girls before you met her and we don't her your girlfriend compaining about how she;s getting ';seconds'; with you. Unless you're 12, you're always gonna be getting someone else's ';seconds,'; so just grow up and get over it. You can't control her and expect her to never talk to other guys. How would you feel if you were never allowed to speak to another girl.





It sounds to me like you're too insecure with yourself and immature to have a real, grown-up relationship. Stay in the kiddie pool until you grow up.I need some advice about my relationship?
the first break up was your fault. You got insecure over a stupid stunt she did before you were dating her. It's never good to reflect on your SO's past before you were a part of their life.





the second break up was most likely both of your faults. Yours because you were obsessing over the stupid stunt again and hers because she was texting other guys in a manner that made it seem she was trolling for guys.
it is your fault. the dare was before you and had nothing to do with you. you are making something out of nothing. oh well you lost her and time for you to move on now.
You need to get over yourself. Being with someone doesn't mean you own them, it means that you share your lives with each other. You dumped her over a silly little dare because you are insecure. No one can change things they did in their past and at the time she wasn't with you so you can't begrudge her for what she did. Don't tell me you never did anything like that. You were ok with it when you thought she was ';So beautiful'; and only now after you've been with her do you think of it as getting ';seconds';. If you love someone you have to love all of them and accept them the way they are. Maybe she is texting the other guy because she wants someone who is more mature and can accept the fact that most people come with a past and it doesn't mean they are any less worth of being loved and respected.