I honestly feel like I am in a relationship with this man, yet we have never kissed or had any physical relations. I know the chemistry and attraction is there 鈥?I鈥檓 100% sure of it, yet, something is stopping the both of us.
Last weekend I went out of state and he let me know how much he was going to miss me while I was gone 鈥?he even called to check in on me and told me how bummed he was that I was coming home so late on Sunday.
I have never experienced this kind of friendship before. I guess my question is; is this normal? Has anyone experienced this? What should I do about it, because my feelings for this man are getting stronger and stronger; I think about him constantly. I actually sent him a text message this morning letting him know that I had a hot dream about him last night 鈥?I鈥檝e never been this open with him so I鈥檓 almost nervous to see him tonight.
SUGGESTIONS? PLEASE!
28/f experiencing a strange ';relationship.'; I need advice, adult suggestions preferred.?
I consider myself an adult, if it matters, and I don't see anything ';wrong'; in a strict sense, but do wonder about how you both communicate and what each as shared regarding emotions, growing, denied, unexpected, anticipated.
I think LIKE is pretty obvious, what more there is we can't know, nor can we predict, but the age difference isn't so sinfully far apart. I date older men, for very specific reasons, NON sexual. I like the guys in my age range, even have good friends in my age range, but don't date them. Age is just a number is a lame cliche by the way, but obviously matters to some. I think more important is two people who share things like commonalities, and can express maturely.
Part of your issue should be thought out in the sense of any agenda, or what you or he get from this ';relationship'; He may not think of you as daughter material, nor you think of him in a Father way, and neither should care what others think. Life should be about enjoying something, and if the two of you enjoy each other then what's the problem? It seems like some bonding is happening, and I suggest let it happen.
It's not weird to be nervous, but it's not like this is a first date or blind date. If he treats you with respect and neither are in a rush to sex or deeper emotional attachments yet, then let it flow until you know.
Angel28/f experiencing a strange ';relationship.'; I need advice, adult suggestions preferred.?
He maybe waiting for you to make a move so you don't feel like he is putting you in a spot you don't want to go. If it is something that you want then go for it and see what his reaction is.
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