me and my hubby have been together over a year and somehow i cant show him the love i have for him anymore i love him so much but when were together i dont feel the love even when i touch him i cant pass my love to him with the touch. whats happening? i miss him so much when he is not around and im always thinking about the beautyfull stuff he has done for me deep down i know he is my true love BUT why cant i show it? why is it impossible for me to show him without saying ';i love you';? i feel like weve grown apart but he doesnt and he tells me h loves me all the time and all but im the only one feeling different i need help what can i do i feel like there is something that doesnt want me to love hm and making me apart from him PLEASE HELP i need adviceRelationship help in need of advice?
Well first off, the first 5 years of marriage is extremely difficult. You as a couple are constantly making adjustments. Sometimes it is difficult to show how you feel, you may be showing it in ways you can't see. You need to ask him if everything is ok, anything you did wrong, something you said. Clear the air, so to speak. then work from there. Marriage isn't all happy, happy, joy, joy. It is work and a lot of compromise. Make yourself show it. write little notes in his lunch, like thinking about you. give him a neck massage after work, find things he likes and try to do it, you might have to make yourself do it at first but you will get used to showing affection. Good luck.Relationship help in need of advice?
Is there something else going on with your life?
Has he hurt you in the past and, unconsciously, you've put a front so he doesn't hurt you again?
Or is there someone else in your mind?
Why do you think you've both grown apart? Are you not spending time together?
Sounds like you need to rekindle your love
What did you enjoy doing in the beginning of your relationship before marriage, the dating stage?
movies, dancing, picnics,what did you enjoy?
START over rekindle the love, you just need to get your mojoe back so to say, when you restart your love be sure to be open cause when your married you tend to pull apart due to work kids etc.
Marriage has to be worked on lol
At least you want to try to rekindle.
Welcome to marriage hell and reality. Once you both say ';I do'; you can kiss your loving relationship goodbye. It has nothing to do with either of you. Marriage is a lie. Marriage even destroys soul mates. Some people get married and realize this in weeks and get divorced others lie to themselves for years!!! You just realized it. If you are lucky enough to ever be in love again DON'T GET MARRIED!!!!
talk to him and tell him where your mind is.
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