Relationship Help.....Need some good advice and perpectives......?

I been dating this guy since 3 years going into 4 years in July this year. we met in high school. a year and a half of our relationship I ';supposely'; lied to him about my male friends in which i told him at the time i had none and some other little ****. so now in this day and age (we are grown up and he is now in the military)..he still bring what i did in high school up in which i did not cheat on him at all. he says that i can't trust u and i don't see us being anymore....ALL BECAUSE THE PAST !!!....so now he usually called and one day, he didn't...so he waited the next day and called me and i didn't pick up and he start to leave voicemail and texts like don't be ignoring me and we can be friends and etc...and if u don't pick up i am not gonna pay your phone bill anymore and i am start stop talking to u completely...Relationship Help.....Need some good advice and perpectives......?
girl d answer to that is.......he wants out of the relationship and is too cowardly to say it so he's makin it out so that your the bad guy or girl in this case. just tell him if he doesnt trust you and doesnt want to be with you anymore then you dont need him and can find someone better and more worthy of you, and then say hey im an independant woman and i dont need you to pay my bills!!!Relationship Help.....Need some good advice and perpectives......?
how am i supposed to now dump that *****. be independent and stand up for your self don't be a grown women haven to look after him.don't make me curse
wow....
A guy who truly loves you will leave the past in the past. He wouldn't bring up mistakes that were from the past and he shouldn't.
I almost didn't even touch this one but here it goes... He doesn't want to be with you. He is in the military and WILL begin cheating if he hasn't already. That's just the way military lives are. Train, drink, screw and repeat. You obviously have him paying for your things and that looks like its coming to an end. I would say just move on and stay friends if you want to. He does care about you and that's why he was helping you out. But relationship wise, its time to move on.
He's being an ***.