Tuesday, April 27, 2010

6 months into a relationship, I need advice on recentering...?

In 18, she's 17. My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months (officially, we were really good friends for a year before we became official and flirted (no pun intended) with dating a couple (again, no pun intended) times. I find myself being uncomfortable with our relationship. We are both devoted Christians and will remain virgins until married; with this in mind weve established a 'ceiling' for 'physical activity. I initiated this...many of the males will think this is 'immasculine' because masculinity is defined misogynistically in today's society. We are, however, closer than most: I've been looking around the 'Love Blogs' on couples at and beyond the 6 month marker and we do, indeed, seem much closer. My question is, on what do we recenter our relationship? What goals do couples at our point have? Is it okay to look far[ther] into the post-college, marriage-era future? Suggestions or recounted memories would be excellent. :)6 months into a relationship, I need advice on recentering...?
Your Goals are for your Own Futures- Not as a Couple.





Maybe you will be together- Maybe Not.





Concentrate on working towards a Great Career.





Good Luck- to You Both. xx

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