Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Sparks are gone in the relationship? need some advice...?

hello there,





Im just really lost over here. IM 17 and my boyfriend is 20. We have been together for 2 years, and things were absolutely amazing for the first year..Its frustrating b.c im having some issues that has caused me to completely lose my sex drive, and he still wants to have sex all the time. We havent had sex in a month, and i wish i wanted to, but i have no interest in doing so. Im just not exactly affectionate, and its seems like things have gotten stale in general.





o yeah little problem: im moving in with him and 2 other guys....





so im just asking if anyone out there had a problem with losing interest in sex when it comes to their spouse of boyfriend...Sparks are gone in the relationship? need some advice...?
Yes people do lose interest but I feel if you really like your partner you should not let them know u have lost interest. How would you feel if you wanted sex and he didn't. In a relationship you have to fulfil each other's needs. Lack of sex will cause problems and he'll just think you're cheatingSparks are gone in the relationship? need some advice...?
hmm ok well i think that its not the best idea to move in with your boyfriend right now, it wont make your sex drive any better probably even worse, but thats your decision. i htink that you need to maybe start feeling sexy about yourself again. go langerie shopping and spend time on yourself and figure out hte DEEP reason why you dont want to have sex with him, is it cuz of the romance not there? is it plane jane? i htink you just gotta spice up the sex life, try different things, GO buy sexy langerie (that always makes u feel on top of the world ha) and hopefully that will help! good luck.

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