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I can't for the life of me tell when someone likes me. I'm attractive, I know I am and I am widely regarded as attractive. But I just can't tell when someone is into me, I'm always a mile off. I am a huge flirt but then if I suspect someone is interested I back off. I freak out, become unsure of what I'm doing. What also annoys me is I can get guys no problem if i ';switch it on';, but I have pretty much given that up because I don't like being phoney. I have an awesome personality and I'm loved by my friends and I pride myself on being who I am, so I want guys to like me for being that person. I often wonder if it works against me though. I've got a sense of wit like the mom from the gilmore girls! It's rare for girls though, I've been told many times. I don't know if guys like it or if it makes them feel like I'm not feminine. Even though I am very feminine. Ugh i'm frustrated. Help!BEST ANSWER GUARANTEED: I can't do this whole relationship thing...any advice?
.l think you're probably right in everything you say and imagine.Except closing the deal satisfactorily Problem is you've got these guys snapping at your heals.Then presto you come out with this tomboyish attitude.they're gone.vamoosedBEST ANSWER GUARANTEED: I can't do this whole relationship thing...any advice?
im not a girl