So i have a boyfriend we've been together for a year and a half he's great i love him he's always there for me he's a big help but we argue a lot about stupid things were both really stubborn he doesn't let me drink which is both bad and good-- its bad cus i want to drink and party and have fun and its good because i have a balance like im not getting into trouble im staying on top of my school work and im not getting caught up in bad things. hes not as affectionate as i would like either.
Now there's this other guy who likes me a lot and wants to be with me he knows about my boyfriend and he said he would wait for me. He compliments me a lot it is so nice and i know he would give me the affection i want but he drinks a lot and i feel like i would get into trouble if i chose him over my boyfriend. I like them both and i have no idea what to do or who to be with this all so confusing what would you do?! Relationship crisis GIVE ME YOUR ADVICE?
what i would do? hmmm. that really depends on quite a few things. firstly it depends how old i was, if i was like 30 and looking to get settled maybe i'd stay with the one i was with - if i loved him. but if i were like 16 or 17 or 21 i think young ppl have a need to for freedom, and yes it is good that he doesn't allow u to drink, he sounds like a good guy, but i don't know how old u are and u do need your freedom to try out and experience even if it means drinking. i don't know u, (it'll help knowing your age) but it sounds to me like u need a break from both of them (a short one) even like a few weeks, do your own stuff, see what u like and don't like, then once u know yourself a bit better it'll be easier for u to choose. although u've been with your boyfriend a long time and prob feel u really love him, sometimes it's hard to let go when u've been with some-1 a ling time and it floods our true feelings, wants and needs.
so i do think u should take some ';time out'; just to see how u really feel....
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