Relationship question, a bloke needing advice?

In about 2 weeks it will be my six month aniversary with my girlfriend. She is beautiful, very social, mature and loves me dearly. Things are going great between us. However there is still another girl who I have been with briefly in the past (we didn't work well in a relationship, only as friends), who I have known for about 6 years. We speak on and off, for example in the past we may chat on the phone for an hour 3-4times a week, whereas now we barely speak and it has been almost a year since I have seen her. She has said she misses me, wants to see me again. I have been the only boy she has said 'i love you' to and i'm not sure how she feels about me. Because it's been so long I don't know if she is as amazing as I imagine (georgus, funny, fun, great at music which i love) or I will be disapointed when I see her as though I have put this perfect but false image of her in my mind.


I am scared if I see her that I will fall in love with her again.


My girlfriend knows about her, knows we haven't worked it out in the past and she is scared that I love her... I still haven't seen her is some time and don't know if I should? I can't help but WANT to catch up and see what all the fuss is about!





I guess I am just confused...


is the best thing to do is see her and find out if she is the one I really want?





Any opinions would be just outstanding





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You gotta decide for yourself. A bunch of strangers on Yahoo Answers won't have any idea what will ultimately make u happy.Relationship question, a bloke needing advice?
Your heart will lead you to the right answer.





I must say that you can damage the relationship you are in now if you aren;t up front and honest with your current lady. She'll be confused and hurt by your lack of being solid with her. Resolve this as fast as you can and do not ';string along'; either of the ladies. You might end up losing both of them.
Yes, but its could that you aknowledge that your building a false image of her in your head because its true, you are. But yes see her. PS stick with the great relationship you already have
no you should stick to your girlfriend because next thing you knoww this is a big deal and other people get involved trust me I know this same thing happened to my friend
I say, ';No, do not do it.';





I will list a few reasons why.





First of all, you are in a good relationship right now. We're all human, and while your girlfriend isn't a saint, I'm sure she does the best she can.


Secondly, the image you have of your past girlfriend isn't real, it is nostalgia. Your current girlfriend can't compete with it, and neither can your past girlfriend.





I know this, because I used to do the same. And I personally went to see the old girl, and I ended up losing both of them. The new girl ended up hurt and jealous for no reason, and I had forgotten what a chav the old girl was.





I would tell you this, but you already told yourself this: ';(we didn't work well in a relationship, only as friends)'; The things that pissed you off about each other haven't gone away: you're just not thinking about them because your new girlfriend accepts you as you are.





Look, you're a guy, and I'm a guy. Sometimes, even when with your new girl, you may close your eyes and thing of the old girl naked. But that's all it is, just a fantasy.





Stick with the reality.
DUDE NO.


Be happy with the girl you're with! Not the one who you USED to be with.


If you want to see her again, acknowledge in your head that you're FRIENDS and nothing more. Stick with casual talk. Minimal flirting at most and no physical affection except for a friendly hug.





Even if you THINK you can get back with her, why would you? It'll just have the same consequences as before. Once an ex, always an ex. You'll hurt your current girlfriend so bad that she'll never want to see you again. You'll lose her for good.
I think you should see her. She probably won't be as great as she is in your head, and if you don't you'll always wonder what might have been and she'll get more and perfect in your mind. You might start to resent your current girlfriend for keeping you apart. I hope that you stay with your current girlfriend if it's a good relationship and it didn't work out with the ex before, but I do think you should have all the information just in case.

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