My ex boyfriend and I have known each other for about eight years now, and after about three years of relatively no contact, we got back in touch and things have been wishy washy and semi hellish ever since. In recent months, we began to find ourselves involved with one another again, trying out some foreign and unspoken form of 'dating'. I totally love this guy - never felt so connected to another man in my life, and can simply envision our wedding day down to the table settings. This is for real. However, we have issues, issues, and more issues.This guy is totally bi-polar when it comes to any sort of functional relationship with me. Refusing to set boundaries or rules, one day he's devoted and loving, and the next, he will ignore my attempts to get in touch or act like I'm a complete burden and waste of time. Over the past two months, I have spent most days confused, baffled, and in a lot of pain.On again/Off again HELL of a ';relationship'; - please offer advice!?
i'm sorry doll. but give it up. if he wanted to be with you.. he would be with you. if it was going to work.. it wouldn't be so hard. and you two wouldn't be on and off. it's hard loving someone who acts like that. i have a 6 year guy who was just like that. and i finally just had to pick up what little self esteem i had left, and move on. this guy isn't for you. and you aren't going to find one who is if you are too busy dealing with this bad relationship.On again/Off again HELL of a ';relationship'; - please offer advice!?
THIS IS HARD WHEN THEIR IS MOODS LIKE THIS THEY DO NOT EVEN KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH THEM,YOU TRYED TO MAKE SOME ONE HAPPY,SOME TIMES IT WORKS SOME TIMES IT DOES NOT WORK,SO MOVE ON I WILL PRAY FOR YOU BOTH.
didnt read your whole story. but here goes your answer.
it's time to call it quits for good.
it's for the best. for you..and for him.
you don't need him and he doesnt need you.
find someone worth investing time and love with.
you'll thank me at the end. trust me.
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