I found about my boyfriend cheating on me with a girl at school (they slept together once then texted severeal times) as well as photos/emails exchanged with older women on teh internet. We had a big fight when I confrotned him and he assured me he wanted to regain my trust and make it work. This was a month ago.
While I have forgiven him I still haven't forgotten and it's hard to let go of my anger and resentment. It is worse when he is mean to me or doesn't have time. Basically ltitle things that might just annoy me have become huge grounds for me leaving him.
He can't really understand how much I am hurting and instead calls me names like psycho and spineless and hates that I have all this ';drama.'; he has since several times hinted that he wants to leave.
basically at this point i want to be selfish and take time and see a counselor. i don't want to talk to him until i do. i told him this. he calls me and barely listens (keeps butting in) and finally i heard him laughing and talking to a friend and he said he had to go eat and couldnt' listen and he'd talk to me later.
i started crying when we got off the phone...i just feel i am in a really hard situation. can anyone weigh in?I need some advice about my relationship?
I didnt read the whole story, but if he is stupid enough to cheat on you...then he ain't worth time, or tears.I need some advice about my relationship?
Okay, I caught meh boyfriend cheating on me. And to tell you the truth is was the worse thing that could possibly happen. I was in the 8th grade [9th now] and yeah, kind of dumb but he was in the 6th [7th now] He loved me like I loved him.. But then, on that horrible day, I caught him having sex with some girl. I am a virgin FYI! Lol But it was the hardest part of meh life. He called me, I had to fight back the tears.. He has cheated on me like 7 times.. and I couldn't take it no more! I am not over him.. and the last time we dated was 8 months ago. But we talk on MySpace all the time. He really has changed since I left him. I was the best thing he had. He is a better person now. He stays single. But anyways. back to your problem.. Im still not over meh ex. It takes time, not a day. Idk what else to tell you. I have a new bf and he treats me okay. But I'm in love with meh ex to.. I just need to let go of the past. It is hard though. Good luck!
sounds to me like you are having trouble letting go. move on with your life. he is not worth it.
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