Another Relationship Problem! Need advice to help me figure out what I may be doing wrong or what to do?

I've been seeing this guy for several months now, at first casually and then more serious. We are good for a week and then things get weird the next week. Last wknd we had plans for Saturday night, well he tells me 8:45 first and then some friends showed up. So, it got later and later and then he texts me and says just come over. I decided not to since now it was 12:45 a.m. The next day he tells me how sorry he is and he loves me, blah, blah. It seems like he apologizing all the time for his behavior. I don't say much about what he does, other than just kind of backing off and being silently mad. Obviously he feels the need to apologize without me even saying anything. I have told him that maybe we shouldn't see eachother anymore and then he tells me he loves me and thats not what he wants. He is constantly putting me on the back burner and then apologizing for it. He wants me when its right for him and the rest of the time I feel like I am chasing him. I hate that feeling.Another Relationship Problem! Need advice to help me figure out what I may be doing wrong or what to do?
He's not ready to make a serious commitment....AND you are teaching him that it's okay. When we ignore irritating behavior and don't work out healthy compromises...we are letting ourselves in for resentment and hurt. Be clear with him that these behaviors are not acceptable and that you require the same respect from him that he can expect from you. Good luck!Another Relationship Problem! Need advice to help me figure out what I may be doing wrong or what to do?
My dear


It is so obvious and I really don鈥檛 want to hurt your feelings by saying this but you are what they say for the spare time, for what is left in the day, when he has nothing better to do , The man took 4 hours before telling you to come over!


Not that he does not like you, He might like u a lot but enough to sacrifice his priorities for you


And if you settle for this now and things get serious between u too and decide to take this relation further you well always be the last on his priority list even as a wife and then kids


And that is not what we women want


Let him get his priorities straightened up first and if he chooses you over all else including his own mother then go for it or else spare your self more pain and cut them before these pain get any deeper


As they say breaking a leg is better than breaking a neck
since u don't want to feel that way , then i guess u already know what to do.
Put him off the way he does you. If he says come over at 8:45then call him at 7:00 and say sorry something came up lets make it at 9:30 and drag it on until 12:45 and then text him that you're exhausted and you'll see him tmrw. Most of the time guys don't realize what they're doing until it is done to them.
if he can't make you his top priority then split. it sounds like maybe he's trying to hide something why would he be apoligizing if he did nothing wrong?
When you are in a relationship you should not feel like';second best';.If the way things are going right now don't feel right, imagine how they will be when you do start going out.Just let him go.Some other guy will be happy to treat you like the princess you are.

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