I need advice on this ';relationship';?

ok so imma try to make this as succinct as possible. i met this guy in january we immediately become **** buddies i start to fall for him in march i tell him i want him to be my man and he says he doesn't do relationships but if he did he would be with me before anyone else. so of course im crushed but i still continue to have sex with him until i tell him a couple days ago that this is the last time because of my feelings etc....i just need advice on rather to run run run far away from this ';relationship'; or try to work it out and prove that a relationship with me is the best thing that could ever happen to him...oh and btw the sex is AMAZING for both of us...if that matters any...any advice will be well appreciated!I need advice on this ';relationship';?
It sounds like your buddy is afraid of commitment. if he hasn't scared you away an you don't wanna run an you really want to try to have any kind of relationship with him. see how he acts there could be another girl. usually the best ones have lots of practice(been there) even though you told him no more he will con you into it again if he hasn't already. your best bet is to let him decide, be you the best way you can. if he sees you at your best he might find you intriguing. also, tease him a Lil. don't let him know hes got you like that. men love to be in total control an they don't believe in changing a good thing.I need advice on this ';relationship';?
i was kind of in the same situation, but it was more me who didn't want the relationship, he might come around if you show him you're worth it, that's what my guy did and we've been together for about 4 months :)
he doesn't want to be with you! he's using you for sex...





I don't care how great the sex is, it doesn't give someone the right to be a jerk.
Don't be so easy for him to get....when he wants a little, tell him you can't. Tell him you want a relationship before he gets back into your PUSSYcat.
What starts improper ends improper, as it doesn't desolate itself. Ask yourself what is more important...The need for flesh or the spirit.
hes not the only one who could be great in bed.


go find another guy.


a REAL guy.





good luck.


:)
pull yourself out of this funk. Find a real man!
all ya do is have sex...? he could go n get hoe 4 dat u dont need to b wit him..let him go
Listen baby, one thing you could do is leave him because he' might either start lokking at you as a tool not a friend or leave you, Second you should date other guys and make sure he sees you and the guy you're dating togter havin fun so he could get jelous.And make sure you stop having sex with him but hang out with him sometimes not as much as you use to.This makes him think about you. And later on his gonna show signs that he wants you other than sex.But don't don't give in, make work REALLY REALLY HARD for you. Trust me girl i know this kind of stuff.