Need advice on a relationship?

I have been in my relationship with my boyfriend for 8 years on and off. We broke up ayear and a half ago. We are back together and at first I thought things changed boy was I wrong. He was so sweet and caring now he is so distanced and drinking again very heavily. I have had a lot going on. I have tried everything to talk to him about it and nothing work. He yells at me for everything I say and do. I feel like I can't do anything right. Any one have any ideas what I should do or how to move on with my life with out him. P.s We have 2 children together so that makes it a little harder I know he always yells at them and not there for them that much. I was always told by my dad that no matter how misable you are that I have to stay with the guy I have kids with until they are 18.Need advice on a relationship?
I stayed with a verbal abuser for 43 years. If I had it to do over, I would have left in the first year. I would only have had one son to take care of. However, I had no education and by that time he had managed to convince me I could not do anything.





I loved him the whole 43 years, but I didn't like him. He really did a job on me.





However, after he died, I can now see I could have talked to him about it and maybe it would have been better.





We had 3 children in 3 years so as time went on, I was less able to leave.





You don't have to stay. Leave as soon as you can. I ended up with 3 messed up kids.Need advice on a relationship?
Well I hate to tell you but your dad is wrong. Dont let your kids grow up in an environment with verbal abuse or any kind of abuse. My mom threw my dad to the curb and that made my life alot better than it was going to be. He changed to get you back and once he knew he had you he went back to his old ways because he didnt have to fight for you any more. Dump this loser and find a real man. Hes not going to listen to you no matter what you do. Counseling wont work. Dont just do this for you, think of your children and how much better their life will be without that scumbag. Trust me i know from personal experience.