I need advice on a relationship!!?

How can I make sure my girlfriend won't cheat on me? If she does, I don't know if I can handle that. I really think that I am in love with her, I just don't know what to do. What should I do? Advice please? :'(





Oh and....





Well... This is going to sound stupid of me.... but she's cheated on me before. She said it was an accident last time, and she said how she was so sorry. She was going on and on about how I am the only one she ever wants to date and how she'd rather be dead if she can't be with me.





Now normally, I would say dump her. But the catch is, I haven't done anything with her past making out. Why would she literally BEG me to go back out with her if I didn't do anything with her? The only reason I would see her begging for us to get back together is if I had sex with her or something, because I hate to say it but she's not very careful when it comes to that. She likes making out, she likes all that stuff.





Sorry if I lost you there, just please try and help me out :'(





Oh and like I said, I don't know if i can walk away from her. I'm already in love with her, it would take months to get over her. And I don't even think I can do that.








I guess what I'm asking is if anyone knew how to tell if she *truly* loves me, or if shes just going to cheat on me again. Maybe a test or something? Suggestions?I need advice on a relationship!!?
There is no way of knowing if she will ever cheat on you again. It's really about whether or not you trust her. If you choose to stay with her, don't be paranoid. But, don't be stupid either. Pay attention to any signs of cheating. And, always be open and honest with her about how your feel and what's on your mind.I need advice on a relationship!!?
well if your relationship is strong, you'd trust her and have an honest and open relationship. well if you guys werent meant to be, then something will happen. love is a 2 way lane. if only one person is contributing, it isnt love. if she cheated on you before than it isnt certain that she might do it again. you need to be honest with her and tell her how you feel. guys can get their heart broken too, so i'm just trying to see whats best for you. lines are easily read to another, you don't know if she's lying or not. so sit her down and tell it to her.





maybe she begged you because she doesn't wanna look like a cheater. you never know. if you aren't ready for sex, you aren't ready, and she needs to respect you for that because so far... you're different from many guys, ur heart is set on finding true love than it is sex.





and i may not have good advice i'm only 13, but i really like helping people.





if she truly loves you, she'd make sure nothing happens again. don't test her, she'll know u don't trust her. just have an honest one on one talk with her. she'll understand.