I need advice about my relationship?

I've been dating my boyfriend for two years and recently he asked me to marry him but when I said yes I failed to tell him that I plan on going off to college in Virginia, where we live it's rare for girls to go to college and most guys end up going in the fishing business since where we live is a fishing town and most of us end up marrying our high school sweethearts so that's what it was always assumed that I would do. But I decided I want to go to college and do something that would possibly take me out of town because unless you want to be a nurse or a teacher (which I don't) there aren't many careers here for women. Anyway, I finally told him I want to go off to school and he got pissed off about! Now, he's making me chose between going to school or him because he doesn't see how it's going to work with him working here (he graduated last year and is already working for his dad's fish business). But I want to marry him but after college though. What do I do?I need advice about my relationship?
I think you are about to have a serious chat with your sweetheart.


If he loves you he can't stop you from going for career. in a long run you are doing this for both of you and that is what he should realise and understand. You are best of to sit him down and talk him through it, explain that you want to be someone in life and make a lot of money so you have a good future together and the only way is to go and study elswhere. i can imagine how hard it must be for him to let you go ( i guess i would be sad too) but if you stay just for him you may regret it later on in life