So I moved to my bf's hometown. Way small then were I'm from. I'm from phx, anyways I've been here for about 3 months and every other day I get really homesick. I just shut down and dnt want to talk to my bf, and I just want to cry so much and I do when he leaves. I miss my family soo very much, I'm close to them, and I talk to my sis everyday and the others in my life. Me and my bf have been together for over 2 yrs, friends b4. My family was supportive but they wouldn't mind me going back, they want me to b happy, and I thought I wud be. I love him but its hitting me more and more, I want to go back to my family but I still want to be with him. I just dnt want to pull him away from his family. If his and mine family were in the same state/city, there wouldn't be a problem at all. I enjoy being with him, and I did this for us, but if I'm not happy I know it will ruin us. Please no mean answers, its tough enough. Just some advice would be helpful. Were in our 20's, we met in my home state. Thanks.Relationship situation, any advice?
You just have to decide for yourself how much you love him, he could help you as long as you don't close yourself off to him whenever your homesick. Family is one of the thing we can count on to be there, you have the phone, email, texts so many ways to communicate until you are able to vist. As long as you work through your homesickness with him and don't shut him down this is something your relationship can get through.Relationship situation, any advice?
If I were in your situation,be strong to face the trials and consequences in life,I mean its normal that you miss your family.But it's time for you to move on. Your mature enough to handle that kind of situation.For me you have to be true to yourself your madly in love with your bf. right!family always there to support you just give yourself a break,calm down,talk your bf and explain to him that you want
to have a vacation in your parents just easy as that.Don't ruin your mood to your bf that may cause a problem.
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