Relationship troubles need advice?

Im 18yrs old, I got my first BF and he is 17. We have been friends for over a year. We decided to go out recently. We first started dating oct 4th. we broke up twice within the month of oct. once was for planing to cheat on me. I set him up to see if he was gonna cheat and he was going to. I know i shouldnt have. We broke up for a month and got back together and broke up again cuz he had girls callin his cell. he was saying they were friends. So then we got back together again for the 4th time. Each time he begs me saying he's made a mistake he'll never do it again. Stupid me believes him and takes him back. This last time we've gotten together the past week he has been acting strange since he met another friend at walmart and ditched me and went with her. Last nite i call and he is taking the same girl he ditched me with at walmart back to walmart to go shoping. Then he comes by my house to let me meet her. She explains there just friends.Relationship troubles need advice?
Save yourself the heartache - dump him!Relationship troubles need advice?
I try to view this from the perspective...what if this was my 17 year old daughter? I would tell her to not stand for it. If you start now, you may find yourself in later relationships becoming a doormat, letting anyone stomp all over you. Be strong and put your foot down! I think he is doing a lot of underhanded things and simply playing you. After breaking up that many times in such a short period, I don't see it getting any better. I am sorry that this had to happen in your first relationship. But since I can't say that it will never happen again, make sure you voice your feelings. And don't back down off of those emotions. If he really wants you, there will at least be some compromise. If not, you will know exactly what you want in a future relationship and know what you will not accept. Good luck!
My best friend and I were friends for 3 years before we went out. On week 3 he cheated on me. We got engaged after dating for 3.5 years. He cheated on me about 7 times that I am sure of, I caught him. We broke up %26amp; got back together several times. Finally I had enough %26amp; cheated on him. I wrote him a letter and broke up with him. He moved to CA with my friend that he slept with and then married another one of my friends. Do you see what I am trying to tell you? Let him go, go far away from you, find a new best friend!
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. I'm tired of being your fool but I will be your friend.
This guy is to busy playing games to have a serious relationship. You may benefit by dumping this guy and finding someone that is more interested in you than making you jealous and angry.
YOUR FIRST BOYFRIEND NEVER WORKS OUT SO IF I WAS YOU INSTEAD OF LOOKING I A DUMB *** (SORRY) BUT YOU SHOULD GET THE HINT THAT HE DOESN;T WANT TO BE WITH IF HE DID HE WOULD OF DITCHED HE BUT HE DIDN'T AND YOU ARE JUST SITTING BACK AND WATCHING IT ALL HAPPEN BELIEVE ME IT DOESN;T FEELL GOOD BECAUSE I BEEN IN YOUR PLACE AND WHEN I FOUND OUT THE FRIEND WAS MORE THEN A FRIEND IT HURTED BUT I ALREADY KNEW AND I HAD SOMEONE ON THE SIDE TO TOO FALL BACK ON SO IF I WAS YOU GET A BACK UP AND WHEN YOU FINIAL GET IT THUR YOUR HEAD HE WILL FEEL STUPID BECAUSE ALL ALONG HE THOUGH YOU WERE JUST BEING NICE BUT YOU REALLY WERE JUST PLAYING HIS CAME HE CAN'T HAVE TO CAKE AND EAT IT TOO. SO WHY DON;T YOU JUST BUT THE ICING ON IT AND CALL IT A DAY.
I kinda have to go with ';curioaitys answer,but could it be possible that the reason he's going to Wal-mart with her(instead of you)may be to try %26amp; pick out a Christmas gift for you?


Spending the night would definitely suggest otherwise obviously Doll,but all you can do is use your ';womanly'; instincts and read his face %26amp; actions from now till Christmas.If you get a gift from him(or not one at all)


that didn't come from Wal-mart then dump his *** and move on.You've given him one chance too many already!


Either way darlin' try to have a Merry Christmas!