!!Relationship Problems!!! Need Advice!!!?

Im 22 years old %26amp; shes 49. I went to jail 4 1 year. I come home %26amp; things r differant. she deletes numbers from her phone and does not anwser certan phone calls while im around. we just dont get along any more. She says she wants to stay together but she does things that damages our trust. For example her and her lady friend say thay want to drink so they let me know that they are going to the store and they will be right back. but they stay gone for 2 hours. how should i react to this situation.?!!Relationship Problems!!! Need Advice!!!?
You should confront her and if you think she is lying to you then you should leave her.!!Relationship Problems!!! Need Advice!!!?
well considering you were gone for 1 year could mean that shes probably toke interest in someone else or she just likes hanging out with her friend..a lot. It's hard for some people to wait around for someone they love to come back so they find someone to occupy them so they won't feel lonely as they use to, but now that your back shes gotten use to you not being there and use to being with the other person. Just tell her that you miss her and that you would like to spend some time with her, just a romantic evening with only you and her. But if she cant make time for you and gives excuses that she that she can't, then someone else is obviously in the picture or her feelings for you have died a bit while you were away.
okay you know what i think that you should do........... sit down and talk to her there is nothing wrong with dating someone 27 years older than you, but you might want to find someone your own age and someone compatable for you so that you may find the right girl and so that you are happy you never know she may want to break up with you but doesn't want to hurt your feelings just remember to do whatever you think is best and that makes you happy
I've got no problem with age difference. But sometimes it can be a factor as to why lovers don't get along.





Sit her down, and ask her. What's going on. Give her time. If she's seeing someone else, make her choose. But give her time. Don't pressure her. Be understanding. Good luck...
Perhaps it's time to move on.





Things don't sound right to me.





Besides, the age difference is amazingly huge. Perhaps you would prefer somebody closer to your age?
If u hit her a bunch of questions at the same time, she would say ur annoying and u dont trust her. u can ask her what's going on but just remember to keep ur cool. once u flame up, she'll be the one storming out.
well you should straight up ask her if she is cheating on you and if she says no give it a little more time just to see if things go on like this. Just do what you think is rite
i think shes kinda old for you...but if u dont think so..then confront her bout it...





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why are you dating a woman of that age in the first place date someone your own age...the maturity level of both of you is different
Sit her down and ask her what is really going on.
Dump her! You're young and starting a fresh new life, you don't need the BS
dude sry but thts sick. shes like more than twice ur age. go to thebar and find ur self a nice young crack whore or somethin
Find someone your own age dude!it sick she could be your mother!
Sit her down and ask her what is really going on mann
she's too old for you!
dude she is old enough to be ur mother! thats just not right, its sick. find someone ur own age.
umm... ew?
O.K., so you're 22yrs. old and she's 49yrs. old. Tell me...what do you think you and this 49yr.old woman have in common. Think about it.... Although you may have been in jail for a year... you still have a whole lot of life in front of you to discover, develop along with things to achieve. Don't let the fact that you were in jail make you think that life is over. To be honest, if she's spending her time out somewhere drinking w/ friends, if she's hiding phone calls, etc... that's a tale-tale sign that while you were gone...she was doin' her thing...and nothing's changed.. For her...you may very well be a 'boy-toy'...that's all. Question is...do you see yourself spending the rest of your life w/ her...as a 'boy- toy.'





Do yourself a favor. If you have'nt found employment, already...do so. Ask your self what type of career would you like to get involved in (what's your passion). Check out your community college. They have special programs for students who have been incarcerated and can help you get into college and start the process of charting a new path for yourself. Remember...you are not your past...you are in charge of the creating %26amp; designing the future you want for your self.....just take a step forward and do it! Leave that 49yr. old woman alone....When you're 40yrs. she'll be 67yrs. old...is that what you want to spend your life doin'...taking care of her.





No...you should prefer to have someone closer to your age, to be able to have a family...truly grow old together....





Don't cut your life short....your life is still just beginning....run! Make your life something that you would be proud of....you can do anything you set your mind to....LIVE! enjoy being young!! ';BE VICTORIOUS';
When I drink, it always takes longer than I expect it to. They said they want to drink; that can easily take 2 hours. Maybe they have to say they'll be right back, or you give them a hard time about going out. I have to do that sometimes( and I'm male) because I think I would rather deal with my wife being mad when I get back, than not being able to get out. I'm not saying it's a good thing to do, but I can see how it can happen. She probably doesn't answer certain phone calls when your not around too; everybody does that.


You don't have much evidence, but it sounds like she does have another life going on besides the one she has with you; and most likely she had men when you were in jail. The deleting numbers is pretty suspicious.


I'd say go out and party with her, and her friends. Show her that you can provide all the fun and sex she needs. Her old habits could be hard to break though.