I need advice in my relationship....?

My girlfriend wants me to move in with her, something I'm completely happy with doing. But I have a fear as well. My girlfriend and I have a real chance at having a long lasting relationship, possibly even move toward marriage in a couple of years. I'm worried that moving in with her and her family might badly affect those chances. It is a good way to escape my verbally, mentally, and occasionally physically abusive step mom, but I'm so scared of losing her and a place to stay in the end...if we aren't a couple, then I may not be able to stay there with her family, which would leave me alone in the world, and with my back injury, I can't just go out and get a job...what should I do? Am I just being paranoid? Should I move in with my girl and her loving and amazingly sweet family?I need advice in my relationship....?
yes, i think you should, if it dosnt work out im sure they wont be horrible and put you out on the spot, you'll have time to find another place, live in the NOW.


put your happiness first with everything!I need advice in my relationship....?
I do not agree with living together without marriage. Convenience is wrong answer. If you considered marriage in a couple years what's wrong with now. Elope and don't tell anyone and plan the special wedding later. My nice did it that way and turned out wonderful 2 years of marriage 1 in secret and they are expected first child next year. It is all about respect for all concerned which includes everyones hearts.
you should it will be ok if you help around the house and be nice to her family and then take her out and dont forget about her even though you leave together dont do anything you dont want her family to know about like sex or something if you are going to do that do it where u cant get caught and still be in her and her familys good grace and dont use her like sneaking into her room at night and dont push her into doing something she doesnt want to do. and for a while dont sleep in the same room if you are old enough i mean lol good luck!
if you really love the girl do it. and if you dont she might not understand she might think you are not IN LOVE with her i am a girl so i know what it is like. Go for what you love and that is your girlfriend so my opinion is move in with her before you lose her.
I don't recommend moving in with the parents!!!! You guys need to get your own place!!! Also, I don't think moving in ruins relationships. What happens when you get married? You move in together! Might as well see if you guys can stand living together!





Good luck! =)
i never understand people who think living together will ruin their realationship if that is want they are going towards in the first place.. if you plan on marrying her then why not give the move in a try... if you cant live together then you cant possibly marry.
If you can't provide anything or even help out in the house, that amzingly charming and sweet family will eventually flip upside down.. Lol I've seen it happen..
Wait it out! You move in too early and with other people you are going to get on each others nerves and especially with the other people in the house! Its not a good idea!
no no no no no absolutely not


if your step mom is abusive you need to get away go live with a grandparent
Are you a girl getting married to a girl? kinda confusing.
if you can't stand each other living together why would you marry her?
idk
r u lesbo?
I'd say that you're just being paranoid. If she didn't really love you or care about you she wouldn't be wanting you to move in, that's a huge step in a relationship. And the fact that she is wanting to take that step proves she really cares about you. Plus seeing as how your situation is at home, I can understand why your scared of the outcome. Just don't worry, everything will be fine as long as you keep things staying the same as they are, don't rush anything or slow anything down. That always seems to have a bad outcome, atleast for me it does, lol. But yeah, just be positive, she loves you, and you obviously love her. Good luck!
To be honest, I moved in with my fiances family before we bought a house, I tell you, don't move in... its great to be with the one you love, but at the same time it makes things hard on your relationship if her family and you don't get along... you may think they're great (just as my in laws are awesome) but after a while, personalities will clash and arguments will happen causing you and your love to fight, trust me... been there. You do on the other hand need to find a same place to go if your not happy where you are, if this is your only choice, then do so, but it won't always be happy and I know you don't want to lose the one you love due to fights between you and her family. It causes alot of friction in your relationship.... Good Luck hun!