Need love advice - in a relationship with a guy who hasnt eva had a serious girlfriend?

Well for the past couple of months i've been seeing this guy n recently we decided to have a serious relationship. When we're together everything is great, he makes me feel so special. However, he's been working really long nightshift 6 days a week so i cant c him during the week n when i dont c him he doesnt even call but he does sms me usually once a day n when he asks wot im doin on sat nyt (his nyt off) its not as if we're in a relationship, its more ';what r u doin, im prob gonna do this';.


We're 20 and this is his first serious relationship but bcos im use 2 being with an older guy his not calling me n not making plans with me really annoys me.


He tells me he loves me but i think its just lust bcos he hasnt had what he has with me with any other girls b4.


What should i do? i really like him but cant keep going on like this.


Plz help. thankyouNeed love advice - in a relationship with a guy who hasnt eva had a serious girlfriend?
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Well,Babe. Relationships like this are alittle flimsy. What you need to do is confront your boyfriend and demand that he shows his love for you. Ask him to take you out. You are not at fault,My dear. It sounds that you are in love with a thinker not a do-er. This would be alright if you two were teenagers. But if you are serious with this guy,You deserve someone that can express love physically. Someone that can hug you,Can kiss you,Dance with you,Romance with you. Show you the loving that you deserve,That you desire. I know that I might not be that person. Your boyfriend can be if he would just grow himself a backbone as well as a pair of grapefruits. You are a very sweet young woman and deserve some respect as well as some loving. I just hope I have helped you out in some way. If not,I deeply apologize. Have a goodnight and sweet dreams now. Bye.
talk to him about it... say close to what u just said to him and he should understand...
Are you just trying to have a serious relationship with any guy or just with him? What do you want in a serious relationship? Do you feel that this guy will protect the main thing that you cherish....your heart? If this guy was sick, hurt or lost his job would you want to help with his struggles, so that both you survive? Would he want to do the same? Do you both want to have children together?





A good test is let him text you and call you for 3 days but do not contact him until the third day. Tell him you lost you job because you have been sick. You still have this flu or what ever and you had to go to the Doctor.





Then see what he says? If you says that he wants to help and take care you. Then say thank you and you appreciate it but your family is taking care of you and you will see him next week. Then next week you tell him you got your job back and you give him a big kiss. If he doesn't say anything like that then he is just happy that he has a girl friend that will give him some booty.
if he says he loves you than just sit down and talk to him.


tell him how you feel.