Sunday, December 27, 2009

Relationship help and advice!?

Hey, im 15. And i have this boyfriend. He thinks im the love of his life, don't get me wrong i do love him. but it's just that he's 17 and i think he's ready to get married im not even sure if i want to get married the only thing i truly want out of life is to be successful and have a baby. I can only see myself as a single mother. I don't want to get married and just sit back and watch my husband cheat, my boyfriend is a great guy but my mom also thought that my dad was a great guy but look at him now he left me when i was a baby and he told me mom that they shouldn't bring any more baby's in this cruel world and now he has two other children. but that's not what im asking this question for. I had this dream that i had a baby and when i saw the ultrasound i saw my baby's face and i started to cry but it felt so real, then i woke up as soon as the doctor was about to tell me what it was. But my boyfriend asked me was he the father of my baby in my dream but i couldn't lie to him i just said i didn't know. i didn't see anyone in that doctor's room with me. it might seem stupid but that dream meant a lot to me. I just need advice. I'm not ready to get married i don't even want to really. I don't believe in fairy tales. what should i do? HELPRelationship help and advice!?
You may only be able to see yourself as a single mother because that is all you know. So, even if that is true, and that is your future then what you have to do at 15 is to concentrate on school, get into college or learn a trade so that if you do decide to become a single parent you can support your child and take care of the both of you without struggling every single day of your child's life.


Wait until you have a stable enough income and life to be able to really take care of your baby.


If you do this you just might meet the man of your dreams along the way. Someone who is able to earn a good living and help provide a good home for a family.Relationship help and advice!?
well honey listen to this your 15 and he is 17 marriage shouldn't be on neither of your minds so erase that as the baby issue no women deserves to be a single mother your just young and you think thats what you want but second of all, you need to focus on ur education, if you had a dream about having a baby it means you feel a void in your life and your looking for fulfillment, meaning since your daddy left babygurl your looking for love to replace that spot, and thats not gonna work dont bring or think about bringing a child in this world when you are a baby i am 21 live by myself and thank god have been successful and at this age im still not ready for child if you need anymore advice email me good luck!

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