Thursday, December 31, 2009

Another relationship sob story. advice appreciated.?

k well i kow this girl and weve been friends for a while. shes one of my best friends and an amazing person. recently i realizedi hav feelings for her and this has made me extremely depressed among other things. i told her this and shes been very helpful and nice about it and she still wants to be my friend. though she now has a boyfriend who i have reason to believe has never cared about her and only wishes to have sex. i care so much for her tho she doesnt realize how much and im always worried i might creep her out. im fine with her having a bf and actually liked this guy until my best friend told me his motives which he heard from another friend of mine who is very trustworthy and close to her boyfriend. i now loathe her borfriend but cant show it and sure as hell cant tell her. sometimes i feel likeshe doesnt care and i could never tell her how much pain shes unintentionally caused me. i love her and the last thing i want is to see her hurt again. she has a low self esteem as it is and has been with many guys like him bfore with one thing in mind. thoughts?Another relationship sob story. advice appreciated.?
If she is not interested there isn't anything you can do. It sounds like she has been honest and fair with you. You need to appreciate that. Move on, do not make her feel uncomfortable by pouring ou your heart to her again about how much you like her. She is with someone else and she doesn't want to date you. Leave it aloneAnother relationship sob story. advice appreciated.?
I think you're a really sweet guy. One of my closest guy friends was in the exact same situation like you and surprisingly enough, he waited by the love of his life, being there for her whenever and wherever, and recently she asked him to be her boyfriend cuz she knows how much he's been in love with her and that she wants to return that love now that she realizes it. I think you should wait and see. This might sound too cruel to tell you to stand by her any longer and see her being with another jerk, but really, who knows she might realize your love at the last minute and break free from all those bad guys she's dated so far and truly see the nice guy which is you.

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