I need advice on my relationship. please help me.?

I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years and we are having serious relationship problems that have only been going on 8 months. Before that sure we would argue but everything always worked out or we solved the problems. Mainly this has to do with trust, he does not trust me. I haven't cheated on him, most of last year we did party alot, and he accuses me of going after his cousin ,and sleeping with him. And when I tell him the truth he doesn't seem to believe me, plus he is influenced by his cousins alot whatever they say must be true. I am always defending myself, I just wish he trusted me. Last night we had a big arguement he said he doesn't love me anymore, that's been hard to hear him say ,he never told me that before. I am also pregnant with our first child, and this pregnancy is sort of scary, because there might be complications which I pray there won't be.


My boyfriend wasn't happy when I told him I was pregnant he just said are sure its mine.


I am already missing him, we spend alot of time together like alot, we do live with each other, but for the last 3 days he has been staying at him brothers, which is no help because they are always drnking. His accusation usually happen when he's drunk. I just need help and advice I am getting depressed over this and just wishing he loved me.


How do I move on, how will I do, being a single mom, will he ever come back into my life, I am so confused.I need advice on my relationship. please help me.?
once he sobers up you 2 need to sit down together %26amp; have a serious talk . If he is man enough to make a baby then he needs to be man enough to take care of you %26amp; help you while you are pregnant , then be man enough to be a Father too. You also need to stop hanging out %26amp; partying %26amp; be together for one another %26amp; be a family, good luck %26amp; hope


all goes well :%26gt;)I need advice on my relationship. please help me.?
ok sweet heart you having alot of issues you need to leave him alone if you feel as though he doesnt care for you anymore you need to leave him and take care of your baby.
You should tell him you need to talk. Have a serious conversation with him and tell him that you are having his first child and he cant play games anymore.
where there is no trust there is no love. and u can always find someone better. i am 19 yr old single dad so pshh . u can do it trust me
You don't need him if he is like that, move on with your life.
ask him to come back coz u miss im
people usually accuse you of cheating when they did. its guilt.
I would just like to let you know I'm very sorry to hear all of this and that I'm no relationship expert, but I think I know what's going through your husbands head. I think he is angry at you. He is also jealous. Very jealous. He wanted you all for himself and he is feeling deprived and insecure that there is another man in your life. See, guys never like coming in second place, so I know being pregnant may make this difficult, but try doing something for him that will let him know how much you really care about him. Beg him to move back in. You two need to be together. also, try to get him off the alcohol.
you can't have a relationship without trust. try talking to him and his cousin that he is accusing you of sleeping with. say you didn't do it to both of them. and if it really comes down to it, get a dna test just to prove to your boyfriend that the baby is his. if he still doesn't believe you, then forget him. he's obviously not worth it if he doesn't trust you and doesn't believe that is his baby. being a single mom will be hard. but just remember, even if you do become a single mom, you have your friends and family to help you out. i hope you and your boyfriend work things out.





-Jess
dont be confuzzled


get another guy in your life


this one doesnt seem like the right kind of person id be involved with


just think about it


would u want your kid to have a father who is drunk all the time


and saying things he doesnt mean?


your kid would be broken


i know its hard to get over a 10 year long relationship


but...


think about it


its better for the kid


ii suggest you find a husband


before you have to deal with being an only mom





good luck
Alright- you need to be really upfront with him about this- even if it means some fighting. You have to explain your point of veiw and how you feel to him, and let him know what your thinking. If you don't and you lock up your feeling for to long- it could cause severe damage to your health; like depression. If it keeps going on like this, always have someone to lean on, someone that you can go to too spend the night at because if nothing gets better- you will have to move on. This guy doesn't sound like a very responsible father. And if he stays at his brothers for too long, your child could get an alcholic daddy. Just do everyone a favor and consider this- Is this the man you want to spend the rest of your life with? Do you want to live the rest of your life with someone who doesn't trust you? and; Do you really want a change? And if you want a change- go for it. Right now.