My relationship? Please, need advice!?

Ok, so I'm basically going to explain everything I can, but shorten it down. I met a lovely guy about a year ago, he's smart, funny and an incredible musician; we spent some lovely nights all cuddled up together. I'd just gotten out of a bad relationship, so he was such a breath of fresh air and to begin with I was a little wary, but I realise now those times were the most amazing. When he started contacting me less, mostly because of a new job, my paranoia and anxieties started kicking in. I spoke to him about this and he felt terrible and made an effort to change, but he's only been able to do this for short periods of time. Now we're a year on... so many of my friends have told me he loves me (as im starting to believe he doesnt) like the way he looks at me and they say we're perfect for each other. The lack of contact however is making me feel less of myself and whenever I want to meet up with him he's usually working or on the same night we hang out with all our friends. I miss our alone time, but I dont want to constantly nag him to text me back - he definitely works long hours and has a band so he's always busy. What should i do? i love this guy so much. (im 18 btw)My relationship? Please, need advice!?
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i totally feel the same way with someone else.


Im looking for songs that reflect this situation? can you help me?


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sorry i couldnt answer your question cause im currently going through it. all i can say is let things fall into place..My relationship? Please, need advice!?
Do you want the truth? Honestly, I don't think this guy is relationship material. You're always going to be second on his ';to do'; list. If you are ok with that, fine, but the smart woman tells him sorry, but this arrangement isn't working out. Then that woman moves on to newer and better things.





I'll tell you another thing, too. The first guy after a bad relationship is rarely, if ever, ';the one.'; You're probably wasting your time anyway.





p.s. The woman who ';lets things fall into place'; usually ends up sitting home alone watching Cameron Diaz movies by herself. The girl with the great boyfriend is the one with self-confidence that was proactive and went out there to find Mr. Right.





Good luck!
well it is easy to get into routine as he is doing with his work and band he just needs to find a way to fit you in. He obviously likes you otherwise when you brought up the lack of time you were spending together he wouldn't have attempted to change it . . . I think you should try to meet up in his free time and him in yours, but then again you just have to stick it out, by the sounds of it he wont go long without you :):)
he loves you just a bit busy and if you are sure that he is working only and nothing else then he loves you a lot he is just a bit stressed or confused . i think you shud try to talk with him.
Hi Tennie, musicians time is really odd.


You can't suit his working hours.


You just never realize that when you go out and have


fun the MUSICIANS are actually working and


entertaining everyone.


He's a good guy but to splits his band for you might be hard for him to take.