Relationship hurdle any advice?

I split up with my ex about 4 months ago and i was heartbroken he was my first love and it really took alot for me to even get out of bed for the first few weeks.Then my current boyfriend who i went out with briefly ages ago asked me to go bowling i didnt think i would end up with him because he was a total player i thought i would have a good night and thats it but he told me he loves me and i know he meant it and we got together now a couple of months on were living together in my mums house and hes asked me to marry.Weve been inseperable since we got back together we've only been apart when we have to be but ive noticed hes drifting weve argued about my ex and he says i talk down to him :S this week he has come home from work once and ive met him out instead and today he lied about when he would be home and then told me hes staying at his mums.should i be worried? im quite and insecure person.Advice someone please?Relationship hurdle any advice?
...tell him WHY, you speak the way you do, and its not to belittle him at all, if he doesn't agree, move on and socialize...you personality attracts...


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Your life is exactly like what you have done here. Everything is running on (punctuation) without breaks (fullstops). You need to stop, take a break and look at your life without running onto the next relationship. If you are a quiet and insecure person, perhaps this is making you into a needy person which no man likes. Start making your own life without relying on your partner and see what difference it makes to your confidence. Once you have accomplished that, maybe then you can start thinking about relationships.
things happened too fast!!!!!!! It takes a long time to get to really know someone. You were in sextant, that';s all, and after many months, the egos split and real issues came out. They can be addressed if both of you want it to work. I think it might be one sided. That's OK, because if you married with unresolved problems, they get worse.
my advise is that you need to dump him, live alone or with your mom. he is using you, and you two rushed things way to fast. a man won't heal a broken heart brought on by another. sex is one thing that is nice to get you back in the game, but take time out and heal yourself. get rid of this guy fast. what's the point since it has been a few months only.
It kinda seems like he is kinda pulling away. But not knowing how he normally reacts well... Im not sure but if u try to talk to him about things and he refuses then I have to say , maybe he is getting ready to jump ship. U should always follow ur heart tho- if u broke up before for what ever reason - u may have wanted to just stay friends, things sometimes seem better but u always have that break up in the back of ur head... and things seldom work out on a twice around the block trial... :( sorry... Good luck finding a good man tho. :)