Thursday, December 31, 2009

I need advice on the relationship between me and my girlfriend, I'm real confused and don't know what to do.

I really love my girlfriend, so much. My problem is that she likes to dance at clubs and with other guys. I have no problem with her dancing, I knew when I asked her out that, and when I started getting to know her that she liked dancing. The problem here is that she wants to dance with other guys, not strangers, supposedly they're good friends... I still can't help being jealous and bothered by the fact that she's dancing with other guys. When I told her that I don't like the idea of her going out to the clubs and dancing with other guys, she takes it the wrong way. She thinks I don't trust her, and that's not it. I trust her, I just don't trust the other guys, I don't know them, and even if I did, I'm still going to get jealous. I know how guys are, I know some of them think. To me, it doesn't seem like I'm asking for much. I just don't want her going to the clubs and to not dance with other guys. I'm not telling her to stop dancing. I don't know what to do, I'm confused.I need advice on the relationship between me and my girlfriend, I'm real confused and don't know what to do.
hey , wow this is the same satuation my friend had with his gf . he used to trust her so much . but she was going to clubs and she was dansing with other guys right in fron of him. well basicly they are in the same satuating as u . but later on she got drunk and she cheated on her bf she slept with diffrens t pp and then she slpet with his younger cousin and whne he found out he just stoped trusting her. but when he told her that he dosnetw ant her to go to clubs she almost broke up with hi. what you should do is get to know the guys , and when she is dancing with them make sure its not like really close u know what i mean. but everyone gets jealous and belive it or not every guy is going to be hitting on ur girl whether shes dansing with them or walking in the park. its hard but yoiu just got to watch what it doesI need advice on the relationship between me and my girlfriend, I'm real confused and don't know what to do.
Aight my dude her is a perfect answer for that from someone with experience and I'm only 21 well its in our nature to get mad or jealous its nothing but in your case dint hound her let her have her freedom . When it is all said and done who is she coming back home to and then you with the trust issue if there is no trust then what are u in it for just being truth full OK no harm or anything intended alright
You better get over being jealous or else learn to dance more, because women love to dance. Simple? She's wanting fun for as long as she can get it in an innocent way and sees no problem with it since she's not giving in to other guys.
i understand what you are feeling right now. Me and my bf are arguing that one. He cant deal that I have guy friends so I gave up that for him. ONe of you have t sacrifice. Either understand her that she is really like that, that dancing with guys is not an issue but you are the issue because you cant trust her guy friends or you have to tell her to stop because you dont think its right. I dont mind my bf having girl friends but he do mind me having guy friends, so I just gave it up to show him that our relationship is more important. You two need to talk and one of you have to sacrifice
Hey, the only thing you should be worried about is that she caves in when I guy hits on her. So you don't actually trust her. Guys will hit on your girlfriend whether she is dancing with them or she is just out taking a walk. If these guys she is dancing with are friends, they won't hit on her since they should know that she has a boyfriend. So she is safer dancing with them than if she meets strangers.
Get To Know The Guys! Who Knows Maybe They Could Be Your Friend Later On! Trust Her!! She Can Take Care Of Herself...She Is Big Enough To Take Care Of Herself!!

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