My boyfriend and I use to talk nonstop the first few months of dating. Around 6 months we started to talk less. We use to talk on the phone and talked a lot on yahoo messenger but that has stopped. He doesn't call anymore...and he's always asking ';Do you want to talk about anything?'; but I'm not sure what to talk about. Every time I ask why isn't he talking much anymore he either says: I don't know, I guess I'm brain dead, or I just don't know what to talk about.
Lately he's been getting on my nerves. We keep getting into arguments, but only online. I tried to avoid online for a while but he still barely talked to me through texting. When he doesn't want to talk about something he just tries to avoid it or ignores it.
He still says Love ya or I love you but I feel that he doesn't as much anymore. I've tried repeatedly to make it better but it is not working. I've sat down to talk with him plenty of times, but it's still the same.
He still holds my hands, hugs me, and gives little kisses...but I need communication to keep the relationship going. Is there anyway to get it back to the way it was?
Btw - We're both Christians.Relationship Confusion. Any advice?
thats tough.. but i recommend you to try bringing up stuff yourself.. or talk about daily things.. it also depends on how old you are too.. that would help me help youRelationship Confusion. Any advice?
in a relationship religion is going to make that much of a difference to what happens in the long run... the honeymoon period is the best part of the relationship, the lucky couples never grow out of it.. but yours has. the best way to keep relationships alive is to introduce new things to your relationship, like hobbies and interests. going out seperately with your own friends always brings something new to talk about in the relationship. sometimes in relationships you have said all that you can say and in the end it resorts to arguements, try bringing new things to your relationships, adventures and hobbies, try new things too, it will keep the spark alive between you two, the hardest part of relationships is keeping it alive, and so long as you both are willing to work at it i see no reason as to why it wouldnt last longer :)
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